How problems are solved?

Last night, I was thinking while we all are busy into the errands of our life. In the searching of peace why most of the time we end up with disappointment? We are so busy in making money, and having a successful life, but in the corner of our hearts there is always a place which is empty.

Really, what is missing? Is it a career or an unaccomplished goal? A good partner or family? No, is the answer.

We all are in search of a empathetic partner but still unable to find the one.

The reason for it is people don't see the things in a right perspective.

The three main elements to see a relationship in between a family, friend, spouse, lover, career or someone else are "value, respect and love" respectively. It has been since ever that people change the order of these things in there life or relations which creates a mess in their own lives. But most of the time people are not clear about their intentions regarding the another due to which they are affected by the confusion created by themselves.

First and foremost of all is, value of a person/thing, meaning is just like every piece of a stone has its own value, likewise humans have the quality that they reflect from their actions. So, first of all starting value yourself then only you know the value of the other. The foundation of any relation is to value another person which can ultimately make you realise about his/her emotions, liking, intentions, behavior and much more.

Secondly, once you start valuing the other person you will automatically respect them. Because respect comes from the value of that person. Just like diamond is treated the highest and the most liked among all due to its value. Respect is something which cannot be borrowed or forced, it automatically comes when you value something or someone.

At last, when you value and respect the person here is the entry of love. Love is the feeling which is unexplained, you can only feel it. Once you are on the right track you will start getting the positive vibes around you and it will lead you to the unconditional love. And this love can be towards your family, friend, career, lover, spouse or anyone else. Love always bring out the hidden quality of you which was undiscovered.

Conclusion is start searching the things in the right direction, it will lead you to the best destination of your life. Of course, it can take some time but it will be good for yourself. Don't rush for the things. Remember "Rome wasn't built in a day" . The most important step in the life is the "First step" towards your journey, it will decide what you want and where you will go. So, it is good to take sometime to think and then decide what you want instead of running blindly.

Because until you are not happy and satisfied with yourself you cannot bring up your career or goal. You will always feel unloved and depressed. So, take a little break from your busiest life and start valuing the thing that you already have, it will seriously bring out the changes in your life.