This is how
Vinh Gian. Look him up.
You'll see what he does — he is amazing at it too.
And last week I heard him speak (as in, in a presentation) for the second time. This time there was more to the story.
He told how he set some high goals (again, look him up). And how people close to him told him it was impossible for him to achieve what he wanted to achieve.
But then he changed his friends. He told his new fiends about his goals. And, as he put in in last week's speech, "They just told me three words: this is how. And it changed my life."
Again, look him up. And then you'll understand this thought that came to me during my morning run on Wonderment Wednesday: 'when we create magic for others, we create real magic for ourselves.'
Wonderment personified.