How NLP Transformed My Professional Journey So Far

A few years back, I decided to take an 11-day bootcamp to get my NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) certification. Through this article, I want to share how NLP has helped me in my professional life. Spoiler alert: it’s been pretty amazing! Here are some key points highlighting its impact:

1. Managing Emotions Under Pressure

Before NLP, dealing with pressure felt like trying to defuse a ticking time bomb—nerve-wracking and usually ending in chaos. But with NLP techniques, I’ve gained the tools to manage my emotions effectively. Now, situations that used to make me anxious are much easier to handle. Pressure? Bring it on!

2. Subtle Influence

One of the coolest things about NLP is learning how to influence others in a gentle yet effective way. These linguistic patterns are like Jedi mind tricks. Guiding conversations so that everyone wins? There’s nothing more satisfying than that.

3. Self-Awareness and Relationship Management

I used to be pretty clumsy with my words, often saying things that caused unintended chaos. NLP has made me much more self-aware, so I can spot my mistakes before they turn into disasters. Sure, I still mess up (NLP practitioners aren’t robots), but now I know how to fix things when I do. One of my favorite NLP presuppositions is “the map is not the territory.” It’s a great reminder that my perception isn’t always reality and that being aware of this can prevent a lot of misunderstandings.

4. Resisting Manipulation

I used to be easily swayed by people who tried to influence me negatively. Not anymore! NLP has made me more aware of when someone is trying to manipulate me. Now, I can spot these tactics a mile away and politely decline. Sorry, negative influencers—you can't fool me!

5. Goal Setting and Achievement

NLP taught me how to set clear goals and map out ways to achieve them, making my direction much clearer and more focused. Now, I’m driven and moving forward with clarity and determination. And speaking of missions, another great NLP presupposition I love is, “when you get serious, you get stupid.” It reminds me to keep things light and fun, which actually makes me more productive and creative.

6. Embracing Failure

NLP changed my perspective on failure. Instead of seeing it as a setback, I now see failure as a learning opportunity. This shift has made my professional life more enjoyable and less stressful. It’s like playing a video game—each failure is just a step closer to leveling up.

7. Self-Acceptance

One of the most profound changes NLP brought about is how I see myself. I’ve learned to stop comparing myself to others, which has done wonders for my self-esteem. While moments of self-doubt still pop up (I’m human, after all), I now see them as chances to grow. Overall, I’m much happier and more comfortable in my own skin.

8. Helping Others Achieve Their Goals

NLP hasn’t just helped me; it’s given me the tools to help others too. There’s no better feeling than helping colleagues and friends navigate their challenges and achieve their goals. It’s like being a real-life cheerleader for their success.

So, why I Recommend NLP

If you want to:

• Handle stress like a pro.
• Master the art of smooth talk.
• Become a self-awareness ninja.
• Spot manipulators from a mile away.
• Set goals like a boss.
• Turn failures into fun lessons.
• Boost your self-esteem.
• Help others reach their dreams.

Conclusion

In conclusion, NLP has been a total game-changer for me. It’s provided invaluable tools and strategies for managing emotions, influencing others, setting and achieving goals, embracing failure, and improving self-awareness. These skills have not only boosted my professional journey but also my personal growth and happiness. I hope my experiences inspire you to explore NLP and discover how it can enrich your life too.

Let’s connect and share your thoughts on how NLP has influenced your life!

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About the Author

Heri Siswanto is the Country Manager for Indonesia at Doka. With over a decade of experience in international sales, strategic planning, and market expansion, he has driven significant growth for Doka in Indonesia. His passion for people and culture, combined with his technical expertise, fuels his success in the construction sector.