HOW TO MOVE ON AFTER A DISAPPOINTMENT

In this life, at least everyone wants to be loved, or wants to at least have someone they can call their lover, and through the journey of this glorious relationships, there may be humps that may lead to a disappointment, this is one of the painful experience that one would not want to go through, but I can assure you, certain things we can't avoid them, but we can learn from them and choose to move on. I remember the most painful experience of my relationship journey I had was when the lady I was supposed to marry after I had paid my dowry got pregnant for another man, this was very difficulty for me to move on, but I still had.

In this article we will look at how we can move on after that terrible heartbreaking from our lover.

How we can move on after a DISAPPOINTMENT

1. Ask yourself genuine questions why you where disappointed.

****Mostly when we are disappointed by our partners we immediately blame the person for leaving us, but this just adds salt on a fresh wound, but I would advise that first of all, as you are crying, sit down and ask yourself a genuine question as to why has she/he left me, then do what is called SELF-COUNSELLING.

2. List all your finding,

***Take time write what you have discovered, just make sure you have not deceived yourself, list all of them.

3. Strive to change or improve yourself the areas of need.

***Take time to start developing yourself, improving yourself and change in the areas needed, all these points are good for you, if you don't work on them, be assured that you will again mess up in the next relationship.

4. Find something to make you happy.

***My dear, you only have one life to live, there is no need to mourn over one person who live, yes it pains, but will you continue crying, oh please, take yourself out, enjoy life to the max, but that does not mean you involve yourself in nonsensical behaviors again.

5. Find ways to encourage yourself.

***There are times when even the encouragements from other people sounds like a mockery, this is because of the pain in the heart, but listen, there is life after a disappointment, find a way to encourage yourself, tell yourself you deserve better than the one who left you, don't sink to death in self blame and condemnation.

1. A watered life, is a health life, water yourself with beautiful thoughts and memories that builds

Catch me for another article soon. (Continuation)