How minds change

What a great call! Our topic—"How minds change” (Or "Changing how we think about change")—generated a great turnout and very active and thoughtful participation. It was a rich conversation, and we’re grateful to all of you who joined us (and missed those of you who couldn’t).

Here's the thing:

All of us live in taken-for-granted-and-invisible assumptions about how minds change. And how they don't. About how behaviors change. And how they don't. ??

We're obsessed—especially those of us concerned with climate change, regenerative business, polycrises, and things like that—with getting other people's minds to change. ??

(Yes, you are. Be honest: Have you ever tried to change someone's mind? Or change a habit? Your own habit? Someone else's habits – your spouse, perhaps, or your child? Your coworkers, your dozen or hundred or 100,000 coworkers? Millions of country men and women? Billions of fellow earthlings? It's not easy. And yet it happens.) ??

So how do minds change? How does behavior change? How do cultures change? ??

I've been obsessed with these intertwingled mysteries for decades, since long before "theory of change" emerged as A Thing in the 1990s. And I'm increasingly frustrated with many of the conversations I encounter about change. The pallette is puny, and the language is sloppy, which suggests that the thinking is sloppy as well.?It contains:

• Lots of wishing. "It would be good if…" "We should…" "They should…" (Which begs Ken Homer's perennial question, "Which 'we' are 'we' referring to when 'we' say 'we'?")
• Too much reliance on logic (as if facts ever changed minds)
• Too much reliance on fear (as if fear ever changed minds).
• Not enough invitation into the world we want. (This has long been the central element in my own theory of change, from World Game to Institute for Local Self-Reliance, the Office of Appropriate Technology, and Natural Logic.)
• And an aversion to power—recognizing it, accumulating it, and wielding it—confusing power-over-as-it's-wielded with power in its many other forms.

I've been developing some theories—and a diagnosis—that suggest key pathways to both understand the mess and to engage it more effectively: Fear (or aversion); Logic (or reason); Desire (or attraction); and Power (or coercion). And we considered the role of Dignity and its sibling Shame, and their deep challenge to identity. (It's no accident that Living Between Worlds—with Grace, Dignity, and Power is subtitled as it is.) ?

So have a look—https://youtu.be/bMB1vTGHwG0 —see where the conversation went, and let me know your thoughts:

• What, if anything, shifted for you while watching this video?
• What ideas would you offer that might enrich the conversation?

And join us next time, on the third Wednesday of every month from 12:00-1:30pm Pacific time. There's a registration link in the comments.

(Who joins these conversations? Executives. Sustainability professionals. Investors. Activists. Entrepreneurs. Seekers. Up-and-comers. A poet or two. And you!

"Because people are hungry for meaningful conversations that move worlds. Let’s have some!")