How to meet a girl at a coffee shop: finally get that attractive girl interact

Basics: eliminate fear & anxiety by establishing the realist stakes

Best case scenario is she gets mildly annoyed for 3 seconds before forgetting the experience completely. Best case scenario is you brighten her day, get the girl attracted to you

What to say # 1: Be direct, open up front with intentions & authentic with yourself

One way to keep your conversations with women light is to be completely open and up-front with your intentions. For example saying “Hi, you’re really cute and I wanted to meet you” is a great way to start a conversation with a girl. There are benefits

• Being direct like this means she doesn’t have to wonder “What does this guy want?” throughout the conversation. 
• You may also find being direct eases any approach anxiety you may have had and makes it easier to start a conversation with a woman.)

What to say # 2: Special banter

 If she’s in a coffee shop she’s probably doing something (reading, writing, etc.), so a great banter technique would be to simply tease her about whatever she’s doing. The girl I met was reading a biology text book and my brilliant opening line was “That looks hard”. If she is listening to music or news on iPhone you can also say "I prefer to read news on laptop"

• The odds are low. At the end of the day you don’t some earth-shattering pickup line that will make how to pick up a girl a breeze – just be friendly and get a conversation going.

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• Have you ever:  Seen your “Perfect 10” walk across the room… Only to freeze up in fear, beating yourself up for not approaching?
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