How to make your work life better?

Where is my life going? What is this life? Why am I suffering in life always??

Every human being asks this question by our-self every time when we are worrying about the life.

One young guy, he must be 25 to 26 years of old. When I?was going to my office, he asked for the lift and told one place to go. But my office was just few kilometers away from where we stood. So I told him to take a share auto to go there. But he told that they are asking more money and I am waiting here for long to get a bus. Then he requested to drop where I am going, from there I will find any other way to go there. After this answer I worried for him. He was keeping a file, so I understood he was going for an interview. So I dropped him the place where he supposed to go and I gave Rs.200/- which I was having in my pocket. Because he was looking so dull and I thought he must not have had the food. So this small money might help him to fulfil to run the day. Then I return to my office, but I could not control my tears by feeling on that guy and I was worried, how many youngsters may suffer for a job and money.?

One Insta video I saw, in that video one guy gave a bit of paper to a Swiggy delivery guy. It was mentioned in the bit of paper, "Don't worry about the way to come, when you walk, that way will create automatically". After seeing that lines, he suddenly sat on his bike. The video was continued to capture his emotions. His emotions was that he felt literally for that moment needed to make him motivated. In that emotion was shown clearly that how much he was in upset and how much he got relaxed.?

Most of us are there in this kind of situations. Each and everyone life is going to find their way to get completed life. Some of us are getting easily and some of us are putting more hard work to get. But few of us are getting tired and stopping to try before reaching our way.?

In my 10 years of professional experience, I have taken lot of interviews. I won't start that same frequent question of, "tell me about yourself".?I usually will start with a question, are you feeling comfortable to sit? Then I will give a glass of water. Because they might be come for the interview with more nervous and they might not have eaten the food, they may could not search the water to drink in that new place. So my first job is to make them comfortable to answer my questions. Then I will ask about their friends. Because everyone of us will have more interest on our friends and they will answer very interestingly. Then I will continue to ask their skill and experience, etc.

Some of the people when they come for the interview, they will answer very keenly to get the job. Most of the time my interviewed candidates will do their job very well after joining their job. But some of people will work differently after joining than they answered in the interview. They will find their comfortable zone and will do their work more lethargically. Like this people are there every where in the world.??

I am telling to those who are finding the place for their own comfortable zone and doing their job very lethargically, you have to look into the outside world. Still so many youngsters are trying to get a good job and trying fair enough salary to survive. Just look at them and compare yourself. You are having a better job and salary to survive.?

I have read in a book which wrote by my professor Prof.Visagamoorthy. He has mentioned that the ants are not getting proper education, but they will go in the same line with more discipline and they do their work very hardly. The ants carry the food more weightier than that own weight. Who has taught to the ants to do more hard work and be more discipline?

The discipline and hard work should by nature, it won't come by forcing by others. Everyone have their own wish and right to live on this planet. But we have to design how to live. Everyone life is the experience, some will get in their own life, some will get experience from other's life. So life satisfyingly what you have now and put lot hard work to achieve you desired life.?

Life is to live....

Don't compare yourself with others who live better life than you. That will hurt you. Make yourself better life and be an example t others.?

-Seshasalam Murugesan

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