how to make effective connection and maintain it.

More or less we all have idea about networking or connection. Significance of networking is immense in any sector. Our life become easier if we have effective connection and we can be able to face challenges.

We have misconception about networking. For instance, we merely know someone but there is no deep relationship between us but we consider this relationship as effective connection.

What is effective connection? Once we are in trouble and reach out to someone, if that person is there for us and once they are in trouble if we are there for them it's called effective connection. Remember financial trouble is not only trouble rather it could be anything.

How we can make effective networking and maintain it? I will share some of my experience though i am not skillful enough to give any suggestion.We can make connection by virtually and physically. I will share about the first one. In linkedIn or facebook we can follow few things to make it effective.

Autobiography text: Once we send out invitation to someone who is already deluged by invitation from others. What makes us different to them we can send our autobiographies text which is our brief introduction and why we want to get connected with them. So they will understand our motive clearly.

Appreciation: After getting into there list, go through into their profile and read some of write up, articles. Then send them a appreciation text that you have learned many information. Share your thoughts, talk about their accomplishment. Remember everyone loves to be appreciated.

Discuss about common things: There is something common in between yon and them, so talk about that. It can be hobby, Interest, profession. Share your view how do you perceive things.

Show your activeness: Once you have completed above three steps, now you know them a bit. Sometimes share their write up in your wall, put some valuable comments in their article etc. Maybe you have read some books, articles which may enrich themselves. So, tell them name of the books, send them articles link. It will create your value.

Do not seek any help at initial stage: We often makes this mistake. Make your connection strong. Always try to put yourself in other people’s shoe. If some one asks for your help whom you don’t know properly. Will you do that?

An effective relationship dose not create over the night. As a student we have to build our connection and It's obvious.We should begin to make our connection gradually at our desire sector once we are in final year.Without effective connection life will be more challenging. 

According to keith ferrazi "Relationship is like a muscle the more you work on that the more it will become strong"