How to listen better to your child?

We all know that children have many stories to share, especially at home. They have amazing imaginations that help them see the world in unique ways.

The stories they tell and how they see things can really impact how they think about life and what they want to do in the future. That's why it's important to listen carefully to our children. It helps them grow emotionally and develop their personality.

So, how can you get better at listening to your children? And how will this make your bond stronger?

Your child is a storyteller, so you need to be a proficient listener...

I understand that as adults, we're often busy and might not always take children's stories seriously. But it's important not to judge too quickly because children can feel if we're really listening and caring about what they say, or if we're just pretending to listen for a short time.

Observe how your child is narrating

Watch carefully how your child talks. Do they talk freely and comfortably, or do they seem shy and unsure? Notice how they sound, their face, and how they move their body. Are they excited?

Think about how they feel inside. Are they worried, sad, or maybe very excited and happy? Knowing how they feel helps you understand what they want to say...

The topic of the story

The narratives your child shares might stem from various sources such as books, movies, school experiences, or playtime adventures with friends. It's crucial to delve deeper into the origins of these stories and decipher the messages they aim to communicate.

Take time to ponder where the story originates and the context in which it unfolds. Consider the themes, characters, and plot elements that captivate your child's imagination.

Reflect on the values embedded within the narrative, are there lessons about friendship, resilience, or empathy waiting to be unearthed? Are there challenges or conflicts depicted that mirror your child's own struggles or aspirations?

The questions that come up at the end of the story

Take notice of the inquiries your child poses once they conclude their story. Each narrative serves a purpose, and your child harbors intentions behind sharing it. By tuning in to the questions they raise, you gain deeper insight into their perspective and aspirations.

Consider the motives behind their inquiries, are they seeking clarification, validation, or perhaps encouragement? Delving into the questions they pose allows you to better understand their thoughts and emotions.

Last words

By following these three rules—observing how your child tells stories, noting the themes they explore, and considering the questions they raise at the end of their narratives—you can engage with your child's storytelling methodically.

This approach shows your child that you truly care about their experiences, even if their stories may seem fanciful to you.

Also. I want to say that this way of listening isn't just about understanding your child's stories and who they are; it's about getting closer to each other. As your relationship grows, it goes beyond just sharing stories to sharing the tough parts of life too.

This first step is just the beginning of your journey with your child. Things might get more complicated as they grow older. But if you listen carefully to them now, you're laying the groundwork for trust, attention, and love.

That way, you'll be ready to help them through any problems they face in the future, whether they're big or small, with care and understanding.

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