How to Leverage Your Personal Journey and Network for Growth

In business and personal development, there are two powerful forces that, when harnessed correctly, can propel you toward unparalleled growth: your personal journey and your network. With all its triumphs and challenges, your story is a unique asset that can establish authenticity, build trust, and inspire others. Simultaneously, a strong, diverse network can open doors, provide support, and accelerate your learning. This newsletter explores how to leverage these two elements in synergy, drawing insights from two panels of accomplished women leaders.?

The Power of Owning Your Story?

One of the most compelling ways to connect with others is through vulnerability. As Ilhiana Rojas Saldana, ACC, CDVC , founder of BeLIVE Coaching & Consulting , shares, "We all have more things in common than we have apart." When you open up about your flaws, struggles, and the lessons you've learned, you create space for genuine connection.?

Andora Gandy Hinton , founder & CEO of Willow North Growth Partners ,?powerfully states, "I am imperfect, I'm going to embrace that. And that led to something else, something bigger than you thought." Her words illustrate that vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. It takes courage to share the imperfect parts of your journey, but doing so establishes trust and relatability. People are drawn to authenticity, and your story can be a powerful tool for building relationships.?

Similarly, Vicky Regan, PCC, CEC , founder of Hone Leadership , shares her journey as a recovering people pleaser and her realization about the limits of resilience. Vicky had a powerful moment of realization: "When I finally really opened my eyes wide and I could see things for what it was, I reframed that from it's not that I can't do it. I said, I don't want to do it. And so, once I reframed that, I flipped that script, and honestly, that flows to every area of my life."?

By recognizing that her resilience had sometimes kept her in situations that no longer served her, Vicky learned to consciously align her actions with her true desires and values. This shift allowed her to establish healthier boundaries and live more authentically.?

To leverage your story effectively, craft a compelling narrative. Highlight the challenges you've overcome, the insights you've gained, and the growth you've experienced. Use storytelling techniques to engage your audience emotionally and illustrate your points vividly.?

If imposter syndrome rears its head, remember that everyone has doubts. The key is to reframe your thinking. Chaneé D. Hawkins Ash, Ph.D. , founder of The Cornerstone Concept advises, "Trust yourself and trust that when something in your spirit is telling you this, this place is not healthy for you, trust that."?

Strategic Networking Fundamentals?

Networking is more than collecting business cards; it's about building genuine, mutually beneficial relationships. To do this effectively, approach networking with a give-first mentality. Look for ways to add value to others, whether through sharing insights, making introductions, or offering support.?

Consistency is key. Networking isn't a one-time event; it's an ongoing process. Engage regularly with your network, both online and offline. Attend events, participate in discussions, and follow up with people you've met.?

When asking for help or opportunities, frame your request with clarity and respect. Be specific about what you're looking for and how the other person can assist. The Maniscripting Journal founder, Samantha Kozuch , suggests, "Go in with that intention; I just hope to meet this one person that maybe has an answer or a resource or a reference."?

Embrace Mentorship for Growth?

Mentors can be invaluable guides on your journey, offering wisdom, support, and connections. When identifying potential mentors, look for individuals who have achieved what you aspire to and who align with your values. Paula Wright, MPA, RYT , spiritual wellness and transformation coach, credits her involvement in a group coaching program for exposing her to new possibilities: "I learned so much about opportunities that I hadn't even considered, like becoming an author and speaker."

Approach mentorship with clear expectations and a willingness to put in the work. As a mentee, be proactive in driving the relationship. Nadia Adam , Founder and CEO of Ecowind Media , advises, " I've met so many of my mentors at these networking events, both big and small. I would definitely encourage everybody to attend. It's as simple as a quick hello; it's your first step. You don't need to have your elevator pitch ready. Just saying hello can open the door for you." Come prepared to meetings, ask thoughtful questions, and be open to feedback. ?

Remember, mentorship is a two-way street. As you advance in your career, make it a priority to pay it forward by mentoring others. Dauwn (Parker) Houston , Founder and CEO of Precision Partners , reflects on her own journey: "The individuals that I was looking to bring on board were willing to take that leap of faith with me." By investing in the next generation of leaders, you contribute to a cycle of growth and empowerment. Share your experiences, challenges, and lessons learned. Be the mentor you wish you had when you were starting out.?

Women Supporting Women?

For women in business, female-focused networks can provide unique value. Samantha shares, "When I found groups of people that were either in the same industry or were entrepreneurs looking for that connection, that's when the game changed for me." These communities offer a supportive environment where women can share experiences, challenges, and triumphs specific to navigating professional life as a woman.?

In these spaces, it's essential to combat the scarcity mindset that can breed unhealthy competition. Instead, foster a spirit of collaboration and abundance. Recognize that another woman's success doesn't diminish your own; in fact, it opens up more possibilities for everyone.?

Actively champion other women. Introduce them to relevant connections, recommend them for opportunities, and publicly acknowledge their accomplishments. As Maya Emme, CLE , Owner & Operator of Poor Little Rich Girl Studio , shares, "It's important because we all have to be there the first time and we know how awkward it is. So, be a little help to the next person there."?

Your personal journey and your network are two of your greatest assets for growth. By owning your story, building strategic relationships, seeking mentorship, and supporting other women, you can create a powerful ecosystem that propels you forward.?Remember, growth is not just about what you achieve, but also about who you become in the process. As you navigate your journey, stay true to yourself and your values. Embrace vulnerability, lead with generosity, and lift as you climb.?

Laura Ponticello , Founder and CEO of Divine Phoenix,?beautifully states, "We're weaving new tapestries every day, and there are so many lessons that we are continually learning as evolving wise women."?

So, take that first step. Share your story, reach out to someone new, ask for the mentorship you need. Your journey is waiting to be written, and your network is ready to support you every step of the way. For more insights and inspiration, be sure to watch the full panel discussions with these incredible women leaders. Their wisdom will undoubtedly light the path ahead.?

—She's Possible Panel Discussion: Owning Your Story by Embracing Your Journey Replay https://youtu.be/9J4fUPYZB3w

—She's Possible Panel Discussion: Networking and Building Strategic Relationships Replay https://youtu.be/IkXShVAOmyk

A heartfelt thank you to everyone who celebrated Women's History Month with us. Your participation, engagement, and support made this month truly special. We are grateful for the incredible women featured in the March 2024 issue of WomLEAD Magazine, especially our cover story featuring Staci Swiderski , Founder and CEO of Family Source Consultants and for all the inspiring panelists who shared their wisdom during our "She's Possible" events. Together, we are creating a brighter future for women everywhere. Let's continue to rise by lifting each other today and always.?