How to Know the Right Partner

Love is the bond that connects us all, but finding a life partner can be incredibly difficult. It may take time, or probably hard but when you find them, it is a breathtaking moment with inexplicable feelings.?

Marriage is meant to be enjoyed and not to be endured.

The problem many people face today is the inability to know their right partner. This is as a result of fake identities, and characters.?Many broken homes today were a result of the inability to discover some hidden traits about their partners and once those secrets unfold the other party becomes uncomfortable and most times seek divorce.

In today's newsletter, I will be showing you some steps that will guide you to know whether your partner is the right person for you.

• Are you both compatible? Marrying someone who shares a lot of common interests with you brings peace and fulfillment.

This is because you support each other's dreams and share ideas. Also, when your vision keeps you both on a path, you have zero need to compromise, and when you are not compatible simple things can cause issues.

• Do you respect and value each other's words? When your love for each other is not driving you both to respect each other's opinion above every other person's idea then the love is questionable.

True love is not bossy and does not force you to obey each other. You discover that naturally, you want to do what your partner said even when he/she is not there. You don't do them in pretense or to please your partner, rather you obey each other subconsciously.

• Is it difficult to explain why you love each other? Pure love is always hard to explain. When your love for each other centers on a particular thing like physique, beauty, dressing, etc, that love is questionable because once those factors are missing the love will fade.?I'm not saying that these factors are not good but they should not form the basis for your love.

The reason why you love your partner should leave you speechless, it should be countless and beyond your imagination. This is why you see some partners cry when they are in love, they can't deny the love yet cannot explain it. It drives them, and grows each day without them trying to put in special effort to make it work.

• Are you fulfilled whenever you spend time together? This is another sign to know whether your partner is the right person for you because anytime you visit each other you should learn new things, share ideas, and bond more.

Genuine love always adds to you. It does not leave you the way it met you. This has nothing to do with having sex. It is natural. You are not trying to please the other party. You are real, free, and relaxed.?

You correct and encourage each other in love. Set workable goals to achieve, and you don't talk about others but rather look out for who to learn from to get better. Also, you discover that each time you spend together seems not to be enough and you always leave with smiles.

• Is your love for each other sacrificial??Genuine love is sacrificial. You think more of your partner than yourself. You create time for him/her, stand by, defend, protect, and seek what will make each other happy.?

It must cost each of you your time, money, and emotions. When you are in a love relationship and you are the only one taking steps to make it work, please leave because you will end up hurting yourself. One person cannot build a lasting love relationship.

• Enquire from the originator: Marriage was ordained by God because, in the Garden of Eden, He saw that it was not good for man to be alone.?As the founder, He knows who is the right person for you. He knows who is faking it and can reveal it to you.

Therefore, in the journey of marriage do not go to anybody to tell you who your partner is,?get the answer by yourself. Try to enquire from God at the early stage when your emotions have not set in. If not, your emotions will not allow you to know God's will for your marriage. This can lead to great mistakes and regrets.