How Jenny Went From Being Single To Meeting A Loving Partner & Getting Engaged
Lily Walford
Most People Struggle to Find Real Love – I Help Women Date Smarter & Attract Emotionally Available Partners
"All my relationships only last under a few months, my longest relationship was 6 months" Jenny sobbed down the phone.
"All I want is a loving relationship, I want to be a mum and I can't even get over the first hurdle of having a committed relationship"
This was what Jenny shared with me in our first conversation.
I really felt her frustration. She had a successful career, she had just bought her first home and she was in her mid 30's so she was feeling the pressure of the ticking clock as she desperately wanted to have a family of her own.
The problem was that she was ending up in relationships where she had no commitment and she would be treated terribly by her partners! She had no idea how to set boundaries and she had no idea what she was doing wrong.
Seriously.... isn't love meant to be easier than this?
Jenny and I worked together and we found that there was some crucial elements that were causing her issues when it came to attracting a committed partner who was ready for a relationship.
Back then she didn't full value who she was.
She also had no idea of who was compatible with her, so she was going for any guy who was showing interest.
She was also dating in a way that was wrong for her, so she was wasting time on dating sites.
PLUS she was starting to lose the trust within herself in the process.
Through our work together she met her husband to be Ivan.
They both had a love for motorbikes and went riding together every weekend.
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They both wanted the same things out of a relationship.
& they both fell head over heals for eachother as they just knew that the relationship felt right.
Our work didn't stop there though...
Most dating coaches just focus on things like self love, getting out there and dating - NOPE our process is so much more immersive.
Before Jenny had met Ivan, we supported her to heal from her GREAT childhood (as there are hidden elements in our childhood that affect our longevity in our relationships- even in the best childhoods!), we did some healing from her past relationships, we took her through behavioural profiling and how to understand body language so she could meet someone who is right for her - as compatibility IS SOOOOOOO IMPORTANT!! 99.9% of relationships end down to incompatibility!! And I taught her how to date based on who she is and what she was looking for in a relationship.
But there's more to just meeting the one...
Jenny and I then worked on how she can build a long lasting relationship. Everything from communication, how to handle conflict and elegantly place boundaries and how to work together as a couple.
This caused Jenny's and Ivan's relationship to blossom!
And best of all Ivan proposed to Jenny at the same place where they had their first ever date!!
I'm pleased to announced that their wedding has been planned for next year and I know that they have such a beautiful future ahead of them that's filled with real love.
From 6 month flings.... to full commitment.
Jenny is just one of the many people who I have supported to enjoy a loving and long lasting relationship. All these beautiful relationships have inspired me to create the LOVE WITH INTELLIGENCE ACADEMY where you can learn how you can meet someone who is right for you and how you can create a beautiful relationship that lasts.
Personal Alchemist: Everyone has lead in their life. Together, we turn the lead in your life into gold.
3 年Always insightful!