How Incarcerated Women in Thailand Inspired My 2025 Resolutions

It was a warm afternoon in Chiang Mai when I stepped into the Chiang Mai Women’s Correctional Institution Vocational Training Center. I wasn’t sure what to expect, but the moment I walked through the gates, I felt the weight of stories waiting to be told. The air buzzed with quiet activity—women practicing traditional Thai massage techniques, each of them working toward something bigger than themselves.

This visit wasn’t part of my original itinerary. A friend had mentioned the center in passing, calling it “a place of purpose and transformation.” Intrigued, I decided to see it for myself. What I found there was far more than vocational training—it was a testament to resilience, determination, and the human capacity to begin again.

With the assistance of the person in charge, who helped translate, I met one woman called Nira—who had been incarcerated for several years. As she worked meticulously on her massage practice, she shared her story with me through the interpreter. She spoke of mistakes, regrets, and long nights of self-doubt. Her focus, however, was on creating a better future, demonstrating a commitment to change and personal growth.

She wasn’t asking for pity or forgiveness. She wasn’t dwelling on what had gone wrong. Instead, she was focused on moving forward—one small step at a time.

It made me think: how often do we give ourselves—or others—that same grace? How often do we look past a person’s mistakes to see their potential?

As business professionals, we’re no strangers to setbacks. A challenging year, a missed opportunity, or a bold move that didn’t pay off can feel like failures. But if there’s one thing I’ve learned over the years, it’s this: growth doesn’t happen without resilience, and progress isn’t always a straight line.

The women in that center weren’t just learning trades—they were rebuilding their lives. Each massage technique they perfected was a symbol of hope and renewal. They reminded me that it’s not the size of the step that matters; it’s the willingness to take it.

As we start a New Year, this idea feels especially timely. We have the chance to reflect on what worked, what didn’t in the previous year and what comes next.

Like Nira, many of us carry the weight of things we wish we could have done differently. But what if, instead of dwelling on the past, we focused on the possibilities ahead?

Maybe your goals for the New Year involve career growth—landing a new role, building a stronger team, or stepping into leadership. Or perhaps they’re more personal: finding balance, improving wellness, or simply making time for the things that bring you joy.

Whatever your goals are, know this: the past does not define you. Your willingness to move forward does.

I’ve seen this resilience time and again in my work, matching the right leader with the right opportunity. Every career move, every strategic hire, is its own version of a fresh start. It’s not just about filling a role; it’s about creating space for growth—for individuals, teams, and businesses alike.

When I left the center that day, I couldn’t shake the feeling of inspiration. These women, preparing to step back into the world with skills they’d worked hard to build, reminded me that every fresh start begins with a choice: the choice to believe in what’s possible.

So as we step into 2025, let’s carry that belief with us. Let’s make it a year of grace, growth, and hope—for ourselves, our teams, and the people we lead.

What’s your fresh start for the year ahead? I’d love to hear your story.