How I Manage My Marriage...

My wife, Julie, and I are soulmates, but what does that really mean?

To me, all that means is that two people exist in a symbiotic space. There is work that has to be done for the relationship to succeed– even if you are soulmates.

We are still two individuals with desires, wants, and needs. It's important to recognize and respect these differences in any relationship.

I've realized that my dreams are my dreams, and I can't expect Julie to mirror them in her realm. We are unique individuals, and that's perfectly okay.

However, as time passes, a natural alignment occurs, bringing our dreams closer together.

Here is a great example of the alignment. In the past few years of our marriage, Julie has done an incredible job scaling her fashion brand,?Julkee Fashion ?(something I had been intrigued by for years). Her patient and consistent approach has led to a point where today, I can be of service to her as she grows and scales.

Our dreams may have started off differently, but with time, they have aligned, and it feels truly special.

This journey has taught me a valuable lesson: with time, things change.

Patience and understanding are crucial elements that allow dreams to align. Supporting our spouses through their passions is paramount. By creating an environment where growth and harmony flourish, we support and respect each other's aspirations.

I encourage you to reflect on your relationships. Embrace the unique dreams and desires of your loved ones. Please give them the space to grow and follow their own paths. Doing so can cultivate a more profound connection that brings you closer together.

Remember, change is constant, and it often brings forth beautiful transformations. Allow time to work its magic, and be open to the unfolding possibilities.

About G:

Gaurav Patel (G) is a seasoned entrepreneur, restaurateur, business consultant, and 20-year veteran of the hospitality industry of Raleigh, NC. He enjoys advising growing start-ups in the local community and mentoring young minds.

Today, G serves as a Senior Advisor at CityPlat, combining his multi-dimensional experience across several leading industries with his passion for development. Together, they continue to change the landscape of commercial real estate in the Triangle.

In 2015, G was presented with a 40 Under 40 Award from the Triangle Business Journal and was most recently recognized as the 2018 Restaurateur of the Year by North Carolina Restaurant and Lodging Association.

G's work endeavors would not be possible without the support of his loving wife, Julie, and their children, daughter Zara and son Azil.

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