How I Got Into And Managed to Walk Away from Social Comparison? ??

Hello Guys! Welcome to #thekishtalks, where I will be sharing some real-life stories of mine, talking about the kinds of issues we all face and how I overcame those!

I know what you are thinking - by reading a blog, I will stop comparing myself?

Really?

No man! It doesn’t work like that ?

You do not read a piece for the sake of it;

You read something because you feel you’d learn something from it.

And as you read the topic for this blog - - that is why you are here. Or else supporting me!

Thanks for that! ??

Trust me, It's NOT BORING! -- It's direct from my heart, not an AI PROMPT??

So now the REAL things I am gonna talk about are very crucial. You might feel these are the same things people say, but they have deeper meanings than you think.

?? Social Comparison is a very, very powerful issue in our lives. This completely ruins our mindset to become something of our own.

Trust me, I have been there! That’s why I know, and I don't want you guys to suffer the same. ?

As a newbie, when I joined LinkedIn, I was very overwhelmed!

I was like "How are people able to do what they want? How are they able to achieve what they aspire to be?" HOWWW?

And the answer to this is just a feeling ?

?? Because they focus on their selves, not on others.

By this, I mean they do not compare themselves with others because they know success comes in different ways and directions.

~ Not everyone is meant to be a Doctor or an Engineer!

Some are meant to be Pilots, Writers, Designers, and many more!

People always tend to blame themselves

I am not worth it, WHY me? People are reaching heights, but not me! They feel hopeless, worthless, and sad.

But can you tell me one valid reason why you torture yourself?

?? This is just torturing YESS!

On one side, you say WHY me? WHY me? On other side, you think everybody is the same!

But it’s just that life is testing you in different ways so that you can be ready to handle whatever comes your way. Life constantly pushes people; no one has ever won against life.

And if you really think that person is doing better than you;

? Appreciate them,

? Learn from them, and

? Do not get jealous because that person might be in the same stage as you are right now; you never know their past, how much struggles they have gone through to reach here at this point!

So STAND up, FIGHT for yourself, FORGET the world, and FOCUS on YOU!

Because at the end of the day, you and only you will support yourself.

?? Practice SFFF

In my life, there was a phase too, where I thought that people were moving so fast, it's so competitive like I never thought this person might be getting this job or higher salary than me, I never thought, I thought I am being left behind, but this is wrong! ? ?

The person in front of you might be anyone, but that doesn't mean they can’t do it or you can't do it. They can but in their own way and if they want to.

And YOU CAN, but if you want to!

People on this earth have some purpose to live. Some got to know earlier, some still don't know, some are searching for it, and some sit in a room, saying

Wow, she’s got that; Why am I not getting it? He knows what to do in life; Why not me??

Do you want to be that last person sitting in the dark room and overthinking?

My friend, not everyone marries at the same age, completes their graduation at the age of 21, or have their own children, some adopt too.

Do you know their pain? No right!

They don't complain, so why do you? And even if they do, do you want to be included in the 99% category?

You still have a life to live; live that fully, and start working on yourself ??????

Ask yourself;

?? What do I want in life?

?? Do I want to be the same Doctor she is or the Engineer he is? Or do I want to be a Pilot or a Writer?

This is so wrong that today’s youth always know how to complain but can’t solve an easy problem when the solution is already available!

Can you imagine how individuals shape themselves?

Do not sympathize with yourselves; STAND up and START something.

Anything, anything you love doing!

And remember, people will only focus on you once you are something. Be that something. Be that person! Be that brand!

No one ever focuses on that LinkedIn page with 10 followers; only they focus on pages that have reached that height society has labeled with!

And that’s true; even I, being the audience, won't trust that page easily until and unless I know something about it. Until I know it is a trustworthy page!

So yeah, people won't trust you, listen to you, or focus on you until you become something!

And this is the time you become that thing! ????

So STAND up, GRAB that pen, and LIST down what you really want for yourself, what you love, and what you can do for people!

And start implementing. Trust me, do it for 90 days, and you will see how much of a difference it can make in your life, and then thank me later! ??

Well, I know you thought I would have written points, but rather than learning the facts, you need to understand the story behind every problem.

If you wish to talk to me, chat with me on this, or get to know my story, you are welcome. You can connect with me on LinkedIn; I am here to discuss anything!

I know what I have gone through and how I overcame it; Many of you have gone through things beyond this, but if you dare to stand up now,

You are among the top 1%! ???

~ Yours, Krisha ??

Hoping to bring Inspiration & Self-Improvement into your lives and helping myself you reach that top 1% stair!

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