How I Figured Out My Strengths: A Journey to Becoming Strength-Conscious

In my previous article, I proposed a different approach to self-development—one that focuses on strengths rather than weaknesses. The idea is simple: by harnessing our innate strengths, we can achieve remarkable success and personal fulfillment. But the question remains, how do we put this concept into practice in our lives? In this article, I'll share how I discovered my top five strengths and became strength-conscious, and I'll provide steps you can follow to embark on a similar journey of self-discovery.

Discovering My Top 5 Strengths

The first step on this transformative journey was identifying my top five strengths through a reputable assessment called Clifton Strengths. These strengths are not skills; they are fundamental aspects of my character that can be applied to any task I encounter. Here are my top five strengths, along with brief explanations:

The Power of Knowing Your Strengths

In a world that constantly reminds us of our weaknesses and limitations, discovering my top five strengths was a revelation. As an entrepreneur leading a team, I had often been made aware of my limitations: my grandiose thinking, impracticality, impatience for results, lack of empathy, and restlessness. Over time, I started to mold myself to fit into a box I was never meant for. It felt like wearing an undersized pair of pants—uncomfortable and suffocating.

However, once I identified my strengths, I felt liberated. I realized that my unique combination of strengths was what made me excel, not conforming to someone else's idea of how I should be. The world may see my thinking as too big, but that's precisely what has led to my visionary approach. My impatience for results fuels my drive to make things happen. My restlessness fuels my desire to keep learning and growing.

Becoming Strength-Conscious: Steps to Follow

1. Know Your Strengths: The first step is to read everything you can about your top Strengths. Understanding them and being able to describe them to others is essential. It's like having a toolbox; you must know how to use your tools effectively.

2. Reflect on Who You Are: Think deeply about your experiences, motivations, and self-image. Consider how your Strengths shape your actions, methods, and reasons behind what you do.

3. Daily Application: Use your Strengths every day. The strengths are not static; they evolve and strengthen with practice. Begin by applying your most powerful strengths in your daily tasks.

4. Watch for Blind Spots: Be mindful of how you express your strongest strengths. Sometimes, their manifestation can create unintended misperceptions. Understand when and how to dial them up or down to ensure a positive impact.

In conclusion, the journey to becoming strength-conscious is a transformational one. Embracing your strengths, rather than dwelling on your weaknesses, is the key to unlocking your full potential. By recognizing your unique combination of talents and focusing on honing them, you'll embark on a path to personal and professional success that's true to who you are.

So, I encourage you to embark on your journey of self-discovery. Know your strengths, embrace them, and watch as they lead you to greater heights and a more fulfilling life.