HOW I DISCOVERED THE DETRIMENTAL EFFECTS OF INNER MONEY SET POINTS AND HOW TO CHANGE THEM

HOW I DISCOVERED THE DETRIMENTAL EFFECTS OF INNER MONEY SET POINTS AND HOW TO CHANGE THEM

I had a experienced it more than once, receiving incredible opportunities, whether financial and/or creative, yet I found myself unconsciously destroying them again and again.

It was heartbreaking and confusing.

I gradually became resistant to even consider possibilities, assuming they would all lead to yet another disappointment.

I’ve never been lacking or short on creative ideas.

I could always get into action and easily follow my desires and instincts, no matter the nature of the idea.

If I wanted it, I went for it (to dangerous and irrational extents sometimes)

Except when it came to sustaining and further developing concepts to the next financial or critical evolution, I often buckled under pressure, which was generally always positive attention.

The final straw came when a former boyfriend and I had created a monthly techno dance party in downtown NYC. The promotion and line-up was meticulously considered and coveted.

The who’s who of the creative and cultural industries would make their way to a tiny dark room in Chinatown where a very limited number of people were admitted.

From Goldman Sachs VPs to high fashion models, designers, and techno producers.

And yet I was barely getting by with NYC rents, covering the party expenses as it had to be just right — it mattered that the details were right, especially the sound system, which wasn't cheap.

After 6 months building attention & momentum, appearing in various publications, we were approached by a group of hedge fund guys.

They wanted us to create a permanent club using our concepts and booking, offering a potentially huge sum of money.

I was angry & resistant.

The money was the only remotely attractive part of their offer.

I could see they had zero understanding of the blood, sweat, and tears which actually made this party what it was — not just another place for “their buddies to do shots together” as they said in their pitch.

I refused their offer, which I don’t entirely regret, but instead of seeing it as a promising sign to seek other potential investors and pursue the potential, I sabotaged it all.

It ultimately led to my relationship to my boyfriend perishing as well, which may have been the most painful loss of it all.

Your inner set points indicate how worthy and deserving you are of all the money, reward, love, attention, & pleasure possible.

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If you are anything like me, when I learned this after experiencing horrible shame, panic attacks, and grief, I wanted to change it ASAP.

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Inner set points act like a rest thermostat to modulate how much you need to keep the balance at your current level of worthiness.

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It doesn’t matter whether you have good self-esteem or confidence…

Highly educated, intelligent, creative….

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When you set an intention to go from your current level to way beyond it, you must actively work with your worthy and deserving set point.

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If you set a financial goal to 3x, 5x or 10x+ your income…

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Which is way above your current level, it’s very important to do intrinsic worthiness work to match it, invoking the nervous system very specifically with a specific multi-level, mind-body approach.

Not biohacking, breatheork, ice baths, yoga, or meditation.

You must get specific.

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Otherwise, you will find ways to sabotage your success or create hardship with each higher level of money, attention, pleasure, ease to offset the good feelings of having it.

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All of this is sub/unconscious of course.

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You're currently at the exact level of how worthy and deserving you feel in each category:

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? income/wealth level

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? health

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? loving/being loved

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? sex/pleasure

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You're always at your set point

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? How hard you have to work for your money

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? How much you should earn

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? How much you should save

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? How much pleasure in your body you are allowed

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This exact set point, determined by your nervous system, is how much you get in all aspects of your life, and why people often unconsciously sabotage great results or experiences when they cross these specific intrinsic set points.

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Catherine xx