How I Broke Free from Endless Scrolling Trap?
Abid Sajjan R.
Engineer at Catholic Relief Services | Amazon KDP Expert | AI | xYLCian
It was 2 AM on a Tuesday when I finally looked up from my phone. My eyes were burning, my thumb was sore, and I had that familiar hollow feeling in my chest. I'd done it again – lost hours of my life to the endless scroll of reels and posts.
Sound familiar? Yeah, I thought so.
For months, this had been my nightly routine. Work, dinner, scroll, sleep (barely), repeat. I knew it was a problem, but hey, how else was I supposed to stay connected, right?
Wrong. So, so wrong.
The question is: why are Reels so addictive?
It’s not just about the content; it’s about the way it’s served. Reels are endless, and even if you start with something motivational, the algorithm will soon throw in a funny cat meme, a romantic couples’ reel, a cool car video—basically, everything you never knew you wanted to watch. It's like a never-ending buffet of distractions, and it's so easy to keep scrolling because the content is short, snappy, and oh-so-engaging.
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I tried all the "life hacks" you've probably heard about. Screen time limits? Please. I could dismiss those faster than you can double-tap a photo. App blockers? Let's just say my uninstall-reinstall game became Olympic-level.
But here's the thing – deep down, I knew these band-aid solutions weren't fixing the real issue. I was addicted, plain and simple. And it was costing me more than just time.
Then came the wake-up call.
It wasn't dramatic. No big blow-up or rock-bottom moment. Just a quiet realization as I sat there, bleary-eyed at 4 AM, that I couldn't remember the last time I'd read a book. Or had a real conversation with my family. Or just... thought. Without the constant noise of everyone else's highlight reels playing in the background.
That's when I did it. No fanfare, no drawn-out goodbye post. I just... deleted the apps. All of them. Instagram, Facebook, TikTok (okay, I never actually downloaded TikTok, but you get the idea).
Now, I'd love to tell you that rainbows appeared and my life instantly transformed. It didn't. The first few days were... uncomfortable. I'd reach for my phone out of habit, only to remember there was nothing to scroll through. I felt weirdly disconnected, like I was missing out on some big, important conversation.
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But then, something started to shift.
I rediscovered this thing called 'free time'. Remember that? At first, I didn't know what to do with myself. But slowly, I started filling those hours with things I'd been putting off forever. I dusted off my books. I started writing again. Heck, I even learned how to make a decent sandwich (before this, I was only spreading chicken-spread on bread xD).
The real shocker? I didn't miss out on anything important. Sure, I was a little late hearing about that new trending meme. But did it really matter? The important stuff still reached me, just not in real-time. And let me tell you, it was liberating.
“In today’s hyper-connected world, feeling bored and disconnected might just be the greatest freedom you can experience. Embrace the quiet moments—they’re a rare blessing in the digital storm.”
Now, I'm not here to preach total abstinence. I still use social media – but on my terms. I log in on my laptop every now and then to check-in. But that mindless scrolling habit? Gone. And good riddance.
If you’re still on the fence about quitting, consider this: A study in the Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology found that limiting social media to 30 minutes a day can significantly reduce anxiety, depression, and feelings of loneliness. And the average person? They're clocking in at almost 2.5 hours daily.
That's nearly 1,000 hours a year, folks. Imagine what you could do with that time.
Here’s the real secret: It’s not about willpower, it’s about making a decision. If you’re tired of feeling frustrated, wasting time, and letting social media control your life—take action. Delete the apps, and reclaim your time.
Ready to break free? The choice is yours.
Who knows? You might just find yourself writing your own 'How I Broke Free' story. And trust me, that's way more interesting than anything you'll find in your feed.
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