How to have your own way in life

How do you respond to life events that appear to be not going “your way”?

Mine ? Response to life events ? "Oh how exciting. I wonder what this gift is".

Did this just happen? Or did I train myself this way..... I made a decision that I was determined to see the truth.

You see, I lived my life in fear. Fear of mail. Fear of the door bell. Fear of phone calls Fear of upsetting others. Fear of letting others down. Fear of being wrong. Fear of having and spending money. Fear of myself……

I see it all now. I didn’t see the gifts. Now I do. I am so sorry. Please forgive me. I love you. Thank you for being with me every step of the way, supporting me. I was trying to stop feeling the wrongness. And I realised that by “trying to stop it” was making it even greater and bringing about more situations to help me feel “wrong” simply because it puts more energy into it.

I then realised that by feeling “wrong” I must be doing something different! And then I laughed And thought yes. I am stepping outside a previous paradigm/belief

So do not shrink in the wrongness. Thank it. For you are doing something “right” for your Self. Embrace it When things seem to have fallen apart. Embrace it. They are actually falling into place. Use what used to bring you down, to wake you up. It is growth. It is the growth you asked for. Step into it. The “wrongness” you feel is the old belief showing itself. Do not shrink back into old ways. Keep your head high. Expand into it. For it is the “right” way

When I feel the wrongness. I Self check my intention. Is this for the greater good of all ? Yes ? Then I smile and am aligned. That’s the feeling of righteousness. Not that I am right and others are wrong. Rather, feeling right in my Self. It feels good. It feels like tuning into what I want, leaning back and letting it in.

"Only the righteous will enter the kingdom of heaven". Funny how this statement has been misunderstood for centuries. Like someone else deserves heaven more than anyone else.

This is heaven here and now, if you can take the time to see.

So, I see you now. The Self. The Love. I am so blessed I can’t wait for the next gift. I know nothing of what is good for me. For all my judgements of right and wrong are conditioned into me. I am open to receiving.

I walk forward in excitement, enthusiasm and expectancy . In unconditional love of Self.

I can’t wait to feel wrong so I can feel that I am right in my Self.

I came to realise I never did anything wrong. I am right in my Self. I am right as me. Who else could I be right as ? In this story of Sheena.

I missed the gift in the messages being sent to me via fear. You were helping me. I am sorry I didn’t see it. Please forgive me. I love you. Thank you

So.....

What’s your story? What will you decide today?

What do you want it to be ?

Make sure it inspires you. And not expires you before you speak it into more life.

So now I always have my own way. I am the way.

Sheena Cantar

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