Spiritual Devas with Laid Back Men
As Garrison Keillor once said, "most people you run in to really don't want to hear about your accomplishments and will often make a sudden excuse to break away. Talk about something completely normal like fixing your garage or your kid's bust, they become all ears.
Spiritualists with laid back partners are the norm. Maybe that's because quirky, passionate and unique people do better with their opposites. Mediums, Psychics and Light Workers that cry because they're laid back partners are not sharing in the hurrahs of their work, beliefs and accomplishments are pretty normal, too. I have read for many that thought their dummy hubby was not sharing their spiritual plane. Some left for an island to romance a guru, only to find them self smack on their face in the mud and back with laid back husband. What do they learn?
A} Keep your spirit to yourself. Like men with religious fanatical women who don't want their souls prayed for and dragged to church every Sunday, the same goes for Mediums, Psychics and Light workers. In most cases their partners are proud of them but don't want to hear about the joy of spirit, talk to spirit or share in cosmic revelations non stop. {"Good for you....now lets go eat a bloody steak."}
B} Keep it real. Shock them. Leave the laid back partner alone instead of going into anxiety about your unique job and belief system. It's the old "less is more" theory. The lighter you keep it, the more they will want you near.
C} Spiritual friends that can't keep relationships have no right to tell others how to have a healthy relationship. Doting husbands with boot camp wives or girlfriends do exist...but many spiritually competitive writers, speakers and mediums would not be happy with a wishy washy "yes dear" type. Learn to not judge your laid back partner by your friends belief system of whats good for you based on worship.
D} Its all good practice for changing our own tires. We learn that the irony in being a success story is being a normal person. In the case of laid back partners LET THEM BE WHO THEY ARE, and it's OK to be exactly who you are. Talk non stop about yourself, your beliefs, your anxieties, ..."poof"....partners go deaf. All of this is discipline and training for the day...the "what if"....for going it alone if that happens. Most of all it's practice on how to be a happy spiritual Deva with a laid back partner.