How to handle random interruptions at work
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How to handle random interruptions at work

Just last week, I called a co-worker out of the blue. "Do you have a minute?" There was a slight hesitation. "Sure, what do you need?" It all seemed pretty harmless, but something went terribly wrong in that short exchange.

You're deep in thought and someone disrupts you. You need something and impulsively just barge right in. It happens every day, all the time. What can we do but give in?

In my experience teaching leaders how to communicate well, I notice that these brief "gotta minute" moments get overlooked. Nobody seems to know what to do, on either side of the story.

Let's break an interruption down by looking at what each of us could have done better.

What the "trespasser" did wrong

  1. Impulse control. Just because you thought you need something now, doesn't mean you need to act on it. Could it wait? Is it urgent? Can I practice some patience?
  2. No realistic time request. Did I consider how much time I really needed? Saying something is going to be a minute rarely translates to 60 seconds. Ask for a set time.
  3. Give my audience an out. People are rarely just sitting around, waiting for me to call. Before moving in, think about them, their workload and deadlines - and offer to come back later.

What the "victim" did wrong

  1. Say yes immediately. When asked, remember you have options. Maybe, it's "not right now, but in 10 minutes," or "it depends, how much time do you need?" or "can I get back to you later today?"
  2. Respond right away. Whether a person calls, texts or shows up, you don't have to answer immediately. It's not rude to wait, let it go to voicemail or gesture you're busy.
  3. No negotiation. Haggling or bartering is an option in most cases. Is this urgent? Can I finish what I'm doing? Could it wait an hour?

Interruptions happen, we all know that. We also need to realize there's a price to be paid when done thoughtlessly. Whether we are causing or responding to them, they need to be managed much better. A research study at the University of California at Irvine said that it takes around twenty-three minutes for most people to get back on task after an interruption.

Looking back at how I interrupted my colleague, I admit I could have handled it much better.

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Tom Gill, DTM

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Be brief. Be courteous, And protect your time. A "Got a minute" request can derail your day... IF YOU LET IT. One??is to schedule regular 1:1 time and also keep a "list" for those who might be on the receiving end and block time accordingly. And set the?.

Mike Theroux

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7 个月

Intriguing discussion point Joseph and I appreciate the tag. Options like: ?Establishing communication rules in the workplace, avoiding unnecessary distractions. ?Plan for interruptions, set aside time in your schedule. ?Practicing mindfulness to mitigate and reduce the 2??3?? minutes. Ultimately it’s important to be transparent to yourself and the perpetrator to state and identify when the conducive time for discussion (intentional) is.

Well said, Joe! Rather than jump right into this, I thought I'd wait a minute...or two. I remember many, many years ago when our CEO emailed me a request after hours. I needed to answer quickly, right? Afterall, he was the CEO. I had a couple of questions about his request, so I called him. His response, "I didn't mean for you to respond tonight!". This was a great teaching and learning moment which he used during a subsequent staff meeting. Impactful to this day.

Greg Burke

Back to school, this time at Stanford.

8 个月

Go, Joseph McCormack! Lots of times people interrupt to say they have a quick question. The problem is that it's often not a quick answer!

This is one of the great uses for text, Slack or Teams: “Please call me when you have 5 minutes, I need your guidance on a template I just drafted”

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