How good are you at self management?

How good are you at self management?

We are all aware of the idea of physical exhuastion but what we forget is that our minds and emotional energy are also finite and need to recharge and that depending on other life events, eg family stresses, ill health, relationship issues eg divorce, sickness in the family etc it is easy to become overwhelmed.

Just as when you look at the resources of a computer, every activity can take a certain amount of resources such as cpu, memory, storage, network etc so too when we do something it consumes mental effort, physical effort, cognitive bandwidth, ego depletion (decision making), attention & focus and emotional energy etc. You need to guard and protect these resources.

Equally well our energy varies during the day depending on our body clock type.

It is easy to think we are "super beings" but we are very mortal and everything we do consumes the finite about of "energy and bandwidth" we have.

Knowing your priorities and giving yourself time to recover is essential to avoiding stress and burnout,

Managing an aging parent, one becomes much more conscious about how finite their energy is and finding the right time for them to do particular activities and tasks.

Here are a list of activities and how they can deplete you. How you manage your "energy" budget is essential to managing yourself, even leisure and fun can tire us.

Even Recharging our "battery" and resetting consumes takes time and "energy".

We are subconsciously aware of the "load" that even leisure activities take when we say we are not in the mood for a certain activity, or watching a certain type of film etc....

Use this as you might look at the windows task manager or the Apple Activity Monitor to be more aware or of where your "energy" is going.

Using this chart will help you plan your day and manage your "energy" better.

Leisure Activities

Listening to Music

  • Mental Effort: Low
  • Fatigue: Low
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: Low
  • Ego Depletion: Low
  • Attention/Focus: Low
  • Emotional Load: Low to Moderate

Watching a Film

  • Mental Effort: Low to Moderate
  • Fatigue: Low
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: Low to Moderate
  • Ego Depletion: Low
  • Attention/Focus: Moderate
  • Emotional Load: Low to High

Playing a Video Game

  • Mental Effort: Low to High
  • Fatigue: Low to Moderate
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: Moderate to High
  • Ego Depletion: Low to Moderate
  • Attention/Focus: High
  • Emotional Load: Low to High

Sightseeing

  • Mental Effort: Low to Moderate
  • Fatigue: Low to Moderate
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: Low to Moderate
  • Ego Depletion: Low
  • Attention/Focus: Moderate
  • Emotional Load: Low to Moderate

Playing a Musical Instrument (Proficiently)

  • Mental Effort: Moderate
  • Fatigue: Moderate
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: Moderate
  • Ego Depletion: Low to Moderate
  • Attention/Focus: High
  • Emotional Load: Moderate

Reading a Book for PleasureMental Effort: Low to Moderate

  • Fatigue: Low to Moderate
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: Moderate
  • Ego Depletion: Low
  • Attention/Focus: Moderate
  • Emotional Load: Low to Moderate

Crafting or Artistic Activities (e.g., Painting, Knitting)

  • Mental Effort: Low to Moderate
  • Fatigue: Low to Moderate
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: Moderate
  • Ego Depletion: Low to Moderate
  • Attention/Focus: Moderate to High
  • Emotional Load: Low

Doing Yoga or Meditation

  • Mental Effort: Low to Moderate
  • Fatigue: Low
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: Low
  • Ego Depletion: Low
  • Attention/Focus: High
  • Emotional Load: Low

Work-Related Activities

Writing a Book

  • Mental Effort: High
  • Fatigue: High
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: High
  • Ego Depletion: High
  • Attention/Focus: High
  • Emotional Load: Moderate to High

Giving a Presentation

  • Mental Effort: High
  • Fatigue: Moderate to High
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: High
  • Ego Depletion: HighAttention/
  • Focus: High
  • Emotional Load: High

Teaching a Class

  • Mental Effort: High
  • Fatigue: High
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: High
  • Ego Depletion: High
  • Attention/Focus: High
  • Emotional Load: High

Programming (Software Development)

  • Mental Effort: High
  • Fatigue: High
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: High
  • Ego Depletion: High
  • Attention/Focus: Very High
  • Emotional Load: Moderate

Designing a Product

  • Mental Effort: High
  • Fatigue: Moderate to High
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: High
  • Ego Depletion: Moderate to High
  • Attention/Focus: High
  • Emotional Load: Moderate to High

Attending a Meeting

  • Mental Effort: Moderate to High
  • Fatigue: Moderate
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: Moderate to High
  • Ego Depletion: Moderate
  • Attention/Focus: High
  • Emotional Load: Moderate

Negotiating a Business Deal

  • Mental Effort: High
  • Fatigue: High
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: High
  • Ego Depletion: High
  • Attention/Focus: Very High
  • Emotional Load: High

Managing Finances (e.g., Budgeting, Investing)

  • Mental Effort: Moderate to High
  • Fatigue: Moderate
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: High
  • Ego Depletion: Moderate
  • Attention/Focus: High
  • Emotional Load: Moderate to High

Other Activities

Flying a Plane

  • Mental Effort: High
  • Fatigue: High
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: High
  • Ego Depletion: High
  • Attention/Focus: Very High
  • Emotional Load: High

Driving a Vehicle

  • Mental Effort: Low to High
  • Fatigue: Low to High
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: Moderate to High
  • Ego Depletion: Low to High
  • Attention/Focus: High
  • Emotional Load: Low to High

Playing a Competitive Sport

  • Mental Effort: Moderate to High
  • Fatigue: High
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: High
  • Ego Depletion: Moderate to High
  • Attention/Focus: High
  • Emotional Load: High

Participating in a Debate

  • Mental Effort: High
  • Fatigue: High
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: High
  • Ego Depletion: High
  • Attention/Focus: High
  • Emotional Load: High

Going to Court as a Witness

  • Mental Effort: High
  • Fatigue: High
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: High
  • Ego Depletion: High
  • Attention/Focus: High
  • Emotional Load: Very High

Attending a Funeral

  • Mental Effort: Low to Moderate
  • Fatigue: Moderate to High
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: Low to Moderate
  • Ego Depletion: High
  • Attention/Focus: Low to Moderate
  • Emotional Load: Very High

Participating in a Group Fitness Class

  • Mental Effort: Low to Moderate
  • Fatigue: Moderate to High
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: Moderate
  • Ego Depletion: Moderate
  • Attention/Focus: Moderate
  • Emotional Load: Low to Moderate

Taking a Long-Distance Flight

  • Mental Effort: Low
  • Fatigue: High
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: Low
  • Ego Depletion: Moderate
  • Attention/Focus: Low
  • Emotional Load: Low to Moderate

Participating in a Hobby Club

  • Mental Effort: Low to Moderate
  • Fatigue: Low to Moderate
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: Moderate
  • Ego Depletion: Low
  • Attention/Focus: Moderate
  • Emotional Load: Low to Moderate

Attending a Religious Service

  • Mental Effort: Low to Moderate
  • Fatigue: Low
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: Low to Moderate
  • Ego Depletion: Low
  • Attention/Focus: Moderate
  • Emotional Load: Low to High
  • Volunteering for a Cause
  • Mental Effort: Low to Moderate
  • Fatigue: Low to Moderate
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: Moderate
  • Ego Depletion: Low to Moderate
  • Attention/Focus: Moderate
  • Emotional Load: Low to Moderate
  • Doing an Interview (as the Interviewee)
  • Mental Effort: High
  • Fatigue: Moderate to High
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: High
  • Ego Depletion: High
  • Attention/Focus: High
  • Emotional Load: High
  • Meeting Someone for a Date
  • Mental Effort: Low to Moderate
  • Fatigue: Low to Moderate
  • Cognitive Bandwidth: Moderate
  • Ego Depletion: Low to Moderate
  • Attention/Focus: Moderate to High
  • Emotional Load: Moderate to High

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