How to Get Things Done When Depression Steals Your Motivation

How to Get Things Done When Depression Steals Your Motivation

Sometimes the darkness is your candle.

Having the best strategies for building your business in place means nothing when the black dog of depression steals your motivation. The lack of motivation resulting from depression (and other mental illnesses or psychological injuries) can be debilitating for you and devastating for your business. But, it doesn’t have to be that way!

On any given workday, there are likely to be a few things on your list that are so important they must be done as soon as possible. Depression doesn’t care about them.

Which is why having a strategy for getting things done when depression steals every ounce of your motivation is a necessity, not a luxury.

Depression often saps motivation so completely it derails even the most exciting plans. Thus leaving you with an ever-growing list of tasks that remain undone. To an outsider, and perhaps even to yourself, this can look like apathy or laziness.

But the lack of motivation resulting from depression isn’t the same as laziness. Lazy business owners can, but simply don’t want to (or choose not to) exert themselves. Depressed business owners want to do their work, but just can’t because their motivation has been hijacked.

Depression is an epidemic among entrepreneurs and creatives. While only 7% of the general population report suffering from depression, a whopping 30% of startup founders report dealing with its effects.

If this has happened to you, and it does happen more often than you might think, and to people you’d never guess have had to deal with it, then read on for a 3-step strategy for helping you overcome a depression-related lack of motivation.

Three Ways to Combat Lack of Motivation

1. Identify the Essentials

When you are operating on all cylinders you likely have a good sense of your priorities and tasks for the day and are highly motivated to dig in and get into the zone. However, when depression strikes and motivation is absent, your ideas about what is essential and what isn’t must be adjusted and reduced.

Depending on the level of severity of depression you are dealing with on a particular day, you might have to limit yourself to no more than three essential tasks, but you start by choosing just one.

Just one task is all you have to focus on.

Now, getting just that one thing done is going to take major effort. And, on a really bad day, it could mean that when that one thing is done, so are you. It’s ok! Considering what you were up against, it’s an incredible accomplishment.

Once you’ve finished your one task, you can re-assess to see if there is any energy left to attempt a second one. And don’t be surprised if there isn’t.

However, if there is, take a bit of a break, then give your second task a go, but don’t expect to be able to finish it. If it does happen, consider it a bonus. Then you can decide if you want to go for the third.

And if it doesn’t, let it go and be happy you got the one thing that was most important done, even if it took you all day and a few time-outs (or naps).

2. Break Large, Time-Consuming Tasks Down into Smaller, Shorter Ones

Realistically, your one essential thing might, in fact, be quite a large and demanding task. It will seem even larger when you’re depressed which is often why it gets let go creating an opportunity for it to get even worse. Look at the task and try to break it down into smaller, easier, more manageable actions.

Keep in mind, even this can seem too much in a state of depression. If that’s how it looks to you right now, choose the one action that is the shortest, easiest, and least energy draining of them all. Then tell yourself you only have to do that. And promise yourself, when this one tiny thing is done, you have permission to collapse on the couch and recover.

This might seem pointless, but it isn’t. It allows you to get started on an essential task immediately, with permission to stop after taking just one action free of guilt.

Yes, it does take longer to get things done using this method. But it’s better than not doing anything at all. And, quite often, just the getting started on something, anything, can relieve the suffocating pressure of depression. Even if it’s only just enough to allow you to recapture some energy and motivation for taking a second action.

However, even if it doesn’t, you are still making progress. Whereas otherwise, you wouldn’t.

3. Celebrate Even the Smallest Actions

Any action you are able to take, no matter how small, is a victory in overcoming the inertia that is depression. This is powerful beyond imagination and should be celebrated.

Use these small victories to remind yourself you can still make progress in your business, even when you are depressed, simply by taking one step at a time. The size of the step is less important than having taken it. Even if several days are required to achieve it.

Depressed or not, nothing happens in your business until something moves. When your depression causes a lack of motivation, you won’t have to be afraid of it anymore. Because you’ll know from past experience you can still beat it and get things done. You can and will live on to crush it on another day.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Linda M. Lopeke, Founder of SMARTSTART, helps entrepreneurs, experts and professional services providers rise above the noise, make competition irrelevant and join the 1% who succeed in business online.

She also leads a $50M philanthropy program that helps digital business owners build their dreams with access to expert world-class professional guidance made possible through corporate sponsorship. Learn more about this innovative program and apply here.

Gerry Burger

Capital/Equity Investor - Applying inversion frameworks to overcome this compounding sum of business and life - Anxiety = Uncertainty x Powerlessness

5 年

Perspective here is so important, Think of all the small incremental activities you accomplished from the time you woke up until right now. How many successes and how many failures??

Debra Roberts

Elevated Communication = Elevated Profits.

5 年

Thank you for writing this article and addressing not only the impact of depression but helpful solutions for combating it during your workday.

Mahlena-Rae J.

Professor X for Introverted edtech CEOs with Stage Fright. | I teach you how to hone your Superpower of Public Speaking. | Coffee Chat Queen. ??

5 年

"when this one tiny thing is done, you have permission to collapse on the couch and recover." Yes. ??

Derek Eckert, CFP?, CEBS

Building clients' wealth and improving the planet's health through environmentally conscious investing.

5 年

I've found one of the easiest ways to stay on task and feel good about your day is to have a checklist. Contrary to popular suggestions I start my day off with a couple of very easy tasks such as check email and voicemail, and simple operational housecleaning items such as logging in to all partner software to ensure everything is on line and functional for the day. Tiny accomplishments to make you feel the day is off to a good start.

Byron Morrison

Helping overwhelmed first-time CEOs to take control and become more effective in their role. Author of The Effective CEO 2.0.

5 年

Such a big topic that is think is so often overlooked. Back when I struggled with depression I'd often find days when I didn't want to do anything and I think it is amazing you are shedding light on this

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