How To Get People To Listen To You At Work
Jessica Chen
Author "Smart, Not Loud" | 2 Million Learners | CEO @ Soulcast Media | Emmy-Winner | Global Speaker on Communication & Executive Presence
HOW TO GET PEOPLE TO LISTEN TO YOU AT WORK
Have you ever been in a meeting and despite all of your best efforts, your ideas just weren’t being heard??Or perhaps you tried to share your ideas and you were just getting dismissed??Not feeling heard?is one of the biggest sources of conflict within the workplace.?
Our CEO and Founder, Jessica Chen, recently hosted a Soulcast Media | LIVE event on LinkedIn where she interviewed author, and psychotherapist, Nixaly Leonardo.
They shared key tips and personal experiences on how to get people to listen to you at work. This?Soulcast Media | Live?event is brought to you by our amazing sponsors at?NeedThat?
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If you want to learn how to get people to listen to you, you’ll want to make sure you are an active listener as well.?Listening is key to impactful speaking.
1. WHEN SOMEONE ISN’T LISTENING
When it comes to?communication conflict, it is often because one person isn’t listening to the other person.?
You may find yourself in a situation where you are being talked over or aren’t given the opportunity to speak. This can be very frustrating.?You may not realize it, but that person is actually?communicating?something to you too. And depending on the situation, you will want to address it.?However, it is best to address how you are feeling when you?aren’t?in the heat of the moment.??
During the Soulcast Media | LIVE, Nixaly outlined a strategy you can use when addressing not being heard.
When you feel like you aren’t being listened to, it is important to address the situation.?
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2. BEING HEARD IN A MEETING SETTING
When you are in a large meeting, whether it be in person or on video, it can be hard to get a word in.?
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3. REENGAGE YOUR AUDIENCE WHEN THINGS GET OFF TRACK
Have you noticed that sometimes when you speak, you can tell others are simply lost or disengaged??Or, your idea keeps getting derailed and off track. Both of these scenarios are extremely frustrating and can throw you off your thinking too.
During the Soulcast Media | LIVE, Jessica, and Nixaly touched on what to do in both of these cases.?
What to do if the person you are speaking to derails your conversation and things start to get off track:
Try to redirect the conversation:
Acknowleding others is key because if the person feels dismissed, they will shut down too, meaning you will lose their attention.
What to do if people seem disengaged:?
During the Soulcast Media | LIVE, Jessica reminded people that part of making sure people listen to you is?tailoring your message?to them.?You’ll want to think about who your audience is and what they want to hear.
If you feel like people aren’t listening to you, it is best that you address the situation.?The more you can collaboratively come up with ways to get your ideas heard, the better. Keep in mind your tone and body language as you speak.?And don’t forget to tailor your message!
If you would like to see the full LIVE version of Jessica and Nixaly’s conversation, check out?Jessica’s Youtube Channel.
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