How to Forge Your own Success Story

A reason that many of us are so focused on attaining success at a short period and embody the mental vision of immediate success in our minds, that we forget what it really entails. We rarely think about failure as being a part of life and how many success stories have emerged from sheer failure. Once we try out something and if we face defeat our charisma gets shattered and completely lose the drive to push forward.

“Hardship is just a lesson. We must learn to overcome your fear of failure and rise like a phoenix over and over again till you succeed”

Well, this isn’t the same cliche that tells you about success and failure. Trust me, as your eyes roll down this article, your perspective towards success and failure will change.

Rise above and panic the panicking panic

Get a glimpse of your past failures. May be a football match, a cricket tournament, not clearing competitive exams, daily tasks and interviews. Every failure you came across, should have taught you a lesson. But we forget the lesson and get occupied by the hardship and pain that has been bestowed upon us. What we do next? "We get a panic Attack. Always observe the lesson from every failure. Try to recollect the mistakes and work on them. If this act does not bring success to you in your next attempt, will at least bring you satisfaction resulting in drive for more. The contentedness that has moved you forward; The complacency that has expanded your capability. Try and cherish!

The Jedi Master of Mistakes

One mistake leads to failure; "Multiple monitored mistakes leads to success". the mistake made during your first failure will teach you the ‘a’ of the 26 alphabets. When you tend to monitor your consecutive failures, you will end up in forming a beautiful word out of the 26 alphabets called ‘Success’. Worst case is that you will land in a state where the success reward just slips off your hands still you realize the Dexter in you.

Sometimes Simple Principles Pays off

Everyday there is a trending success story about someone from some corner of the world. These successful people might have had a set of principles followed for several years that have brought their talents to light. It is always better for a developing person to follow such successful people. Sometimes those iconic figures are the embodiment of success for many rising talents. The path they passed by, crossing several hurdles would have taught them lessons. When we follow the same, our effort in formulating a success plan is less. We have better visibility towards the results. If this doesn’t work, it is also easy to figure out our flaws. It will also help us being positive always.

Icons of Success

Let me take you all to the success stories of several people. Jack Ma, Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Michael Jordan, M.S Dhoni and this list is infinite. They have something in common. The ‘Never Give-Up’ attitude, that brought them to this stage where we have been honoring them now, as the embodiment of success. They changed their focus towards success and failure expecting no lauds for what they do and are still doing. Building your character with such attitude bricks will never make you fall.

Not All Fingers are the Same

All the men above we have been read about, were once imperfect. They failed and learn from their past failures and are still learning from their mistakes with persistence as a lifeline. Learning will help us recognize our mistakes.

Hope your travel through this set of words would have been the much needed motivation and eye opener that I was expecting it to be. So stop slacking and go do something that will make the world stop in its tracks for a minute and take a look back at you.