How to Fix Irrelevance

There's no worse feeling than being dismissed, deemed irrelevant, or unappreciated.

We're not designed to live in contexts that pervasively reinforce that feeling repeatedly, in either of our professional or personal lives.

Yet, here we are.

Modern times.

So many people haven't gotten the memo about the evolution we were all invited to step into back in 2020.

Relevance doesn't come by feeling significant through drama and the differences it creates but from a place far more subtle and powerful.

To deepen our relationships outside of us, with things like time and money, and most importantly, the core of all of these: Our relationship with ourselves outside of all these external definitions.

That's where our relevance comes from.

And that applies to everything: Personal development, spiritual enrichment, business process improvement, leadership, and so on.

How the world around you sees, and how you navigate through all the contexts of life, starts with how well and deeply you know yourself.

It's the root of your Why informs the How, What, and Who.

Why people continue to fall for outdated thinking

Not all of us are the quickest thinkers. Sometimes, the rug has to be pulled out from under our feet in order to wake up.

They are in a timeloop of trying harder doing the same things and don't even realize it.

They think that something rebranded equates to something new when it's really just a polished up version of something tarnished from overuse.

They believe it because they're so trained to believe in the authority outside of themselves that invites anything that diminishes their significance to find its way in.

The opening depends on judgement by others for relevance iand where it comes from only from what's been established previously.

Not realizing this allows events to string together to form a black swan event.

Others who follow their frontrunner's mindset and prepare for by creating the future they want to live in.

They bend time at their will and mold circumstances that make them happy while not doing any harm.

After all, that's the quantum...everything all at once that is selected from responsibly because a stability with thoughtful responsibility already exists.

What now works better

Frequency-first mindsets

This is knowing that everything has being uprighted to its natural, organic state.

That problems are not solved at the surface level but rather at the core essence level that yields enough space for differing opinions and perspectives to harmonize.

It's a the highest level that makes it possible for all the related details to benefit from the solution.

People with this mindset make the time to get to know themselves better and trust that while others wait for proof.

Know yourself

If this sounds good, viable, and plausible, then let's get honest. Answer these questions to see how well you really do know yourself.

If you don't know yourself, how can you expect others to see your relevance or value? Don't expect them to. That's your job.

To thrive where we're going, knowing yourself is the solid matter to tether to so you won't flail about like an astronaut lost in space when things come at you because that's what the quantum is like.

• You're not your age, gender, ethnicity, college degree (or lack thereof), your title, your bank account balance, relationship status, or any other external identifier that is often captured on a government or bank application form. Sorry, you're just not. We've moved beyond that sh*t a long time ago.
• A dimension of you that's right in front of you is trying to get your attention. A shitty job? Where have you lost the courage and will to innovate because someone told you it wasn't relevant? Evasive money flow? Where have you not updated your value points, at their core frequency, so that you're now a match for how money is created? Your value is not at all related to money...it's self-respect, self-love, self-wisdom...the essence of I see you, I know you, I appreciate you where the "you" is YOU.
• Do you know yourself without having to diminish, villainize, or compare yourself to someone or something else for definition, significance, or relevance?
• What you want points to your big WHY and WHO you really are if you look all the way down to the core essence. Every problem and success has been pointing you to that level of yourself in a real-world way.

Trust yourself

Trusting is different than unicorns, kumbaya, or namastes. Trust in yourself focuses your actions with such clarity that all BS outside of you dissipates and you take care of what's in front of you.

• When the sh*t hits the fan, do you believe you'll be ok?
• Do you know what true self-reliance is?
• Instead of depending on others' projections of who you are, do you believe enough in your own value points (the whole purpose of life is to create value from your experiences) to use them to make yourself happy without worry what others will think?

Do what makes you happy

This is not spiritual bliss as you may be thinking. I don't know anyone who stayed functional in the real world by floating above it. This isn't about getting a new job, a better team, or a dream vacation but living life where all of those core essences are right in front of you.

• Love yourself enough to let go of the people and circumstances that dim you.
• Do you know yourself well enough to know WHY you're doing what you're doing with people WHO get what you're about without over-engineering it to achieve WHAT your true north is pointing you towards?
• Is there enough of you to give to others to receive more value from the experience so you remain in balance?

Knowing, owning, and loving your answers to these prompts is where your relevance lives.

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I get people to reset to their true north. Like a compass, only minor recalibrations are needed to shift from the prescribed magnetic north to your true one. It's all about where you stand in your Perspective | Purpose | Perception