HOW to FIND your SELF WORTH after SHE CHEATED ON YOU
Pablo González
Breakup and divorce consultant | Overcome it, find inner happiness and attain a healthy relationship again.
It can get really dark on the inside when you see that the person you care about the most prefers to spend time with somebody else.
When I was going through that, there was no way I could stop imagining her with him.
Of course, I felt disregarded, powerless and worthless.
I had done everything I could for her. I cared about her, I helped her when she needed it, I was there when noone else was. Yet, she lost that attraction and went after a guy that didn't really care about her, and I felt hurt.
It took me many struggles, many learnings and way too many hours crying alone to figure out how to find my worth and build an umbreakable self confidence.
I'm going to tell you the key points of it, so you can put them in practice and be happy again.
#1 No ego, realise that you have to better yourself
If she lost attraction for you it's because you did something wrong, accept it.
There are men that have that kind of energy that naturally attracts other people to them.
Those men are so happy, confident and fun to be around, that people just enjoy spending time with them.
Be honest with yourself, are you even close to be that guy?
Ok, then don't let your ego get in the way of your happiness and start working on becoming that man.
If I managed to become that guy, you can do it too, but first you have to accept that you need to work on it.
#2 Learn to embrace change.
Life's tough. Any unexpected thing can happen.
Your dad could die tomorrow.
Your kid could have an accident and spend the rest of his life in a wheelchair.
If you're not able to emotionally adapt after an affair, how are you going to keep on going when life gets really tough and other people depend on your mental strength?
Take this as an opportunity to learn how to embrace change because sooner or later life will try to crush you and you will have to be ready.
#3 Self confidence comes from being able to take decisions that help you move forward
It took me a long time to realise this
Your happiness is in the palm of your hands
Your mental stability depends solely on you.
Your self worth is built out of the actions you take.
And the actions you take are defined by the decisions you make, now.
And why do I tell you all this?
Because, even if it sounds impossible to you, I know you could be confident and happy in less than 2 months, if you just chose to do so.
What is stopping you?
If you want to take the challenge of finding your self worth, send me "SELF WORTH" and we'll see how you can do it.
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Great points there
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4 年Pablo, what interesting work you are doing. Where do you live in Switzerland?
Breakup and divorce consultant | Overcome it, find inner happiness and attain a healthy relationship again.
4 年And to those thinking about cheating, think twice???