How To Dress The Part in Any Situation

How To Dress The Part in Any Situation

Wish you knew how to pick the perfect outfit for every situation?

Wish no more! In this post, I am going to show you how to choose clothes that make you feel confident, bold and ready for anything.

This post is for BOTH men and women!

You Are What You Wear

The type of clothes you wear –  and the kinds of accessories you use to either jazz them up or tone them down –  says a lot about who you are, where you’re from, what you do and how you feel about yourself and others.

In fact, dress scholars Mary Ellen Roach and Joanne Eicher, find that dress is one of the main ways we send social signals because what we wear shows our identity. 

What you wear — or dress, as Roach and Eicher define it — sends nonverbal cues to other people. Our clothing shows:

  • How much power you wield
  • How much influence you have
  • How smart you are 
  • How much you earn

You see, writers, costume designers and directors use fashion all the time to show clues about a character. Think about Harry Potter’s glasses, Imelda’s shoes, Wall Street power suits or Cleopatra’s jewels.

The question is, what signals are you sending?

Let’s do a little self-quiz to find out:

How would you describe your current style? (Check all that apply)

___Formal

___Casual

___ Edgy

___Professional

___Flirty / Attractive

___ Unique

___ Young

___ Mature

___ Powerful

___ I have no sense of style

Look at your answers to the question above. What specifically about your style makes this impression?

___ The colors I wear

___ Where I buy my clothes

___ How I tailor my clothes

___ How I accessorize

___ The brands I wear

___ The patterns I wear

___ The people I emulate

Now let’s talk about your ideal impression. In your dream world, how would you like to come across? What is your ideal style?

___Formal

___Casual

___ Edgy

___ Professional

___ Flirty / Attractive

___ Unique

___ Powerful

Lastly, when helping clients build wardrobes they love, Elsa Isaac starts by asking them to write down 3 words that describe how they want their clothes to make them feel.

“Maybe you want your clothes to make you feel powerful or confident or sexy. Or maybe creative and edgy….make sure (the words) resonate with you and write them down.”

Once you identify the feelings you want your clothes to elicit, she says, the easier it is to choose the right pieces.

“It’s not about trends or being fashionable per se, it’s about how capable we are of expressing ourselves,” Isaac believes. What are three words that describe how you want your clothes to make you feel?

  • ____
  • ____
  • ____

Now, let’s make it happen! My goal is to help you understand the psychology of your fashion choices. Why do certain types of clothing change our first impression?

Clothing and Perceptions

Researcher Mary Lynn Damhorst says “dress is a systematic means of transmission of information about the wearer.” A person’s choice of clothing can heavily influence the impression they transmit and is therefore a powerful communication tool.

When it comes to communicating confidence and ability, what you wear plays an important role in creating positive first impressions. Whether you agree with the statement or not, clothes make the man. Or at least others’ perception of the man, science shows.

How to Dress:

So how can you get closer to your ideal first impression? Below I have a guide to each type of fashion psychology and how you can get more of it. You can use color, styling and fit to get closer to the personal brand you want.

  • Color Psychology: How you use colors is a great way to harness the power of fashion in your first impression. Don’t pick out colors randomly, think very carefully about how you use each.
  • Fit: How you tailor your clothes and the shape of your clothing affects how people perceive you.
  • Styling: Accessories–for both men and women can completely change an outfit. From shoes, to watches, to scarves, to hats, these are easy ways to change the impression of your style.
  • Brands: If you have trouble understanding fit and color on your own–let brands do it for you! Go to brands that emulate or showcase your ideal style and rely on their styles to decide for you.

How to Be Seen As More Formal:

Researcher Yoon-Hee Kwon of Northern Illinois University asked men and women about the effect of clothing on judgements made in a working environment. Kwon found men believed wearing the correct work attire increased the likelihood of them communicating they were intelligent, competent, knowledgeable, honest and reliable.

  • Dark colors are more formal–especially black and grey.
  • Clanky bracelets, wrap scarves or lots of accessories actually decrease your formality. If you want to be seen as more formal, simple accessories and clean lines are better.
  • Professional brands that do great workwear are The Limited, Calvin Klein and Armani on the higher end. This blog post from Fashionista covers some great stores that do affordable workwear.

How to Be Seen As More Casual:

Bright colors, pastels and loose clothes mark an air of casual fashion. Layers and loose fitting clothing tend to come across as more laid-back and easy-going.

  • Adam Glassman, O Magazine Creative Director, advises people to wear one bold piece. Perhaps a vibrant beaded necklace or an oversize men’s-style watch (minus the blingy-bling or wacky colors). 
  • Note: Men should keep jewelry to a minimum. A classy watch and/or wedding band is sufficient. No thumb rings, earrings or weird piercings (unless you’re auditioning for the Red Hot Chili Peppers. Then, anything goes.)
  • Some great casual clothing brands are Macy’s, Nasty Gal, Tommy Bahama and Gap.

How to Be Seen As More Edgy:

If self-expression and creativity is what you’re after, there’s no better medium to communicate that than with fashion. “To me, the more meaning my clothes and accessories have, the more they communicate who I am and what I want to convey to the world,” says New York stylist Elsa Isaac. “The possibilities are endless.”

  • Don’t get into a color rut. We all have our go-to colors when we’re stuck for what to wear or pressed for time. Celebrity stylist Daniel Musto advises breaking out of your color rut by getting a little creative. Wear a lot of black? Try navy instead. Always wear brown shoes? Try blue dress shoes to change it up. Usually wear jeans? Don’t stick to the usual blue, try black or khaki green.
  • Shop bravely. Try Etsy for handmaid clothing. Go to Amazon for fun leggings or scarves. Try Zappos for funky shoes. Online, you are going to find a wider variety of options to play with.
  • Use contrast. Juxtaposing cut, color and texture will make any outfit fun and interesting. It can also communicate different sides of your personality. If you’re wearing a leather skirt that screams edgy, then maybe you don a cashmere sweater that whispers sweet. Or perhaps your jewelry is demure and flirty, but your heels are strappy and vixen. The contrast in fabric and weight creates complexity that can be intriguing both for the wearer and the observer. “It’s a way of adding you to your outfit,” Isaac says.

How to Be Seen As More Professional:

You don’t need to spend tons of money on clothes, but you do need to make sure your clothes fit right. That holds true for both women and men. Doubly so if you want to come across as professional. According to Frank Bernieri, PhD, associate professor in the psychology department at Oregon State University, an interviewer will determine within 10 seconds of meeting a job candidate whether they’re right for the job. “A well-tailored outfit implies that you’re conscientious and pay close attention to detail,” Bernieri says. 

“I can’t express that enough,” says menswear expert Nic Screws. “When people come up to me and ask, ‘What is the number one thing I can do to elevate my wardrobe?’ I’m always like, ‘Get a good tailor.’”

“You can take pieces that you have right now and transform the way you look by just making sure they are fitting you properly.” says Screws. 

  • That means not too tight, not too loose, not too long and definitely not too short.
  • Suits for both men and women are always seen as more professional.
  • Don’t break the “One and a Half” Rule. This one is for the ladies: Of course you want to look great and feel sexy when you’re out with your crush, but there’s a limit to how much skin you should bare  – especially, if it’s a first date. According to Musto, there are three areas of the body women want to focus on:
    • Legs
    • Arms
    • Bustline

“You should never show more than one and a half (of those areas),” he says. “You need your outfit to be like the appetizer – it fills his stomach just enough…but dinner’s not served.”

Want to be seen as more attractive, unique and powerful? Get all of our fashion and dress tips here. 

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