HOW DOES BEING SELF-CONFIDENT IMPROVE THE QUALITY OF RELATIONSHIPS?

Building healthy relationships is inevitably through self-confidence. 

Individuals who lack self-confidence always see people other than themselves as more beautiful, more intelligent, more successful, or more vital, that is, "superior." They tend to see themselves as ugly, unsuccessful, incompetent, unloved, and unwanted. 

For these reasons, they find themselves in an unhappy and hopeless position in their social relationships. 

Feelings that affect the person's behaviors, such as anxiety, restlessness, and panic, will cause an inability to express himself correctly and result from a lack of self-confidence. Because of this lack of self-confidence, the person tends to negatively interpret every behavior of the other person and thinks that they are unwanted, unloved, and considered unsuccessful. All this leaves the person faced with fears of rejection and rejection.

A person needs to be self-confident to have healthy communication and relationship and to feel good.

The importance of self-confidence not only in social and business relationships, but also in romantic relationships should not be overlooked. You all know that self-confident individuals can only experience a healthy relationship to recognize and express themselves, their feelings, expectations, and desires. As a result, if the person cannot acknowledge and express himself/herself clearly, it would not be realistic to expect the other party to understand her/him correctly and establish proper communication. Insecurity tires and wears out the person. The person cannot be sure of the steps she/he will take in her/his relationships, cannot develop and color the relationship. Seeing yourself inadequate also brings envy and suspicion. She/He puts his ties at the center of her/his life, not herself/ himself. Her/His requests remain in the background because she/he cannot express himself well. It makes it challenging to maintain a long-term relationship and makes the person unhappy in the end. 

What Should Be Done to Increase Confidence in Relationships?

- No matter how much you love the other person, never melt your life into his / her life. Be aware that you have a life of your own. 

- Know to be us and me in both your emotional and social relationships. Don't blame yourself when your relationships are over. No relationship needs to last forever. 

- Never pretend to be someone you are not. 

- Discover your character. What do you like, what do you hate, what are your limits? Find out. 

- Increase your possibilities. If you want friends, mingle with people. If you wish to love, increase the number of people you take into your life. 

- Trust your instincts. For example, if you fit an outfit and want to wear it, wear it. Don't care what other people will think. 

- Admit your mistakes. Get away from the people and situations that upset you. 

- Leave the things that you experienced in the past that you could not change to remain there. 

- You do not have to do what people say and want. Make your decisions calmly and through a filter. This life is yours!