'How do you possess such strength and courage?' they ask. Let me share my life story!

Well, "You discover your strength when strength becomes your sole option"

We often admire the strength of those around us, whether it's the courage to start a business or face challenging situations at work. We might silently desire to possess such strength, not knowing our own capabilities.

I wasn't born with a silver spoon. My childhood was marked by hardships, and my mother, who led the family with courage and resilience, taught me invaluable lessons about life. I proudly admit that ‘I am who I am because of her’. She is the STRONGEST women I have ever met in my life. The best gift parents can give their children is their genes, for me—it's the courage and resilience that I witnessed in my mother.

In the midst of my parent’s financial struggles, my brother and I took on the responsibility. We began earning a modest income at a young age, we took on home tuitions, worked at a store. Balancing the responsibility of keeping the family together while barely able to care for ourselves was daunting. During this journey of our childhood, we learnt the value of food, money, time and family.

Amidst these challenges, self-pity was not an option, instead I embraced the following action:

• Seek Mentorship : Realising I couldn't navigate it all alone, I sought mentor and advice from my brother, a practice I continue to this day.
• Focus on priorities: We concentrated on crucial matters for our family's well-being, letting go of non-essential luxuries.
• Learn: Despite many mistakes I made (I’m sure all of us do), each new situation bolstered my confidence, reducing the difficulty of future challenges.

Surviving the challenging situation wasn't extraordinary; it was the only path given our circumstances. When faced with new challenges, remember that confronting them reveals unknown strengths. Embrace the next challenge without fear; it's the only way to discover your true strength.

Life presents significant challenges and opportunities for action. It's how we navigate through these circumstances that mold our character and making the right choice that isn't always immediate. Growth stems from both the choices we make and those we make correctly.

People often ask about how I manage home, office, and my passion while maintaining a cheerful behaviour. They often label me as an inspiration and a source of motivation for them. I take it as a compliment and feel happy that I'm able to impact someone's life positively. My advice is simple – it's important to balance your life. I always encourage people to take time for themselves and engage in activities they love, whether it's relaxing, sleeping, gardening, or taking a stroll. That one hour of 'Me Time' is essential for rejuvenation. Human connections play an important role in learning and unlearning for a healthy lifestyle. Personally, I prioritize my work, well-being, family, and, most importantly, myself (I go out shopping, movie, drive all alone & trust me, it’s fun)

The next time you encounter a new situation, opportunity, or challenge, remember that facing it will teach you something about yourself. You will emerge from it stronger than before.

So, how resilient are you? There's only one way to find out—don't fear the next challenge that comes your way. Embrace it. Your only limit is 'YOU'!

Live.. Love.. Laugh! Stay Strong !