How do you know when relationship is over?

Maybe when you feel more in love with your memories than with the person standing in front of you.

They say if you remain friends after calling off your relationship, either one of them is in love or both, who have not moved on in life.

People say many amusing things like the above statement, and maybe it’s true.

Break up’s shatter the strongest, buries the weakest.

So the idea of embracing friendship with your ex is certainly a remote possibility. Because your ex reminds you of peace, happiness, love and of course friendship you have had with them over the years, on the other hand they are also the reason why you had pain, trauma and grief to a certain extent in life.

Don’t blame them. Relationship’s comes with baggage and not every baggage has to be carry forward till eternity.

You can be friends after a breakup, only in two cases. One, where your love was just a word for you both and break was just removing the tag of relationship, you both were not serious in love.

Second, you are two one hell of a mature persona’s. Who have moved on and are keen to accept the reality and your ex’s new life and also embrace yourself.

It’s rare to be friends with your ex because not many have strong emotions and principles in life. Once they decide to move on, and never to go back, they don’t.

If you are one of these type then go for it. Not to forget the fact, that you guys are just friends now. So the prospect of one of you or both to have a relationship with other person is a certain possibility, so embrace your emotions to be strong.

If you are in the middle of nowhere, stop being a friend to your ex. You will ruin time, peace and pain for both of you.

The world offers great prospects to embrace. Be it friends or partners.

You will find many friends and partners to explore life. Build yourself and your emotions.

Always remember, there is a reason why they are your ‘EX’!

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Thank you?...I don’t like your friends! When you are in a relationship, you might not share the same friend circle. We connect and resonate with different kinds of people.

It is not necessary to vibe with your partner’s friends and it is in fact good to have your own set of friends that you get along with instead of being in each other’s spaces all the time. But this has a con too. Arguments in a relationship can come up when one partner disapproves of another’s friends.

Spending too much time with them and inviting them to your place might aggravate your partner even further. It can seem a little unfair at first and even leave a partner feeling that the other is being selfish in the relationship.

What cause arguments in a relationship

?Lack of understanding of the other person’s wishes and needs

Differences in opinion and a lack of acceptance of the same can lead to unfair fighting in relationships

?Unclear communication causing deep-seated misunderstandings Feelings of neglect leading to a sense of abandonment

Having high expectations from each other and not be able to live up to them

Misreading each other’s actions and feelings

Do you want to add a word or two?....

Whether two people who have been in a relationship can be friends post breakup depends on the people involved. Some can, some can't.

In my experience, this depends on a lot of factors, including emotional maturity and having an abundance mindset about love and relationships.

Emotional maturity in this case means understanding that healthy relationships are always voluntary, and that a person who breaks up with you is not taking something away from you that belongs to you by right.

It also means understanding that feelings do not need to control behavior. (I have heard people say “you can't be friends with someone you have feelings for.”

This is only true if you are the sort of person whose actions are ruled by your feelings. You can truly love someone and still understand that you aren't good partners, accept that, and behave like a friend.)

Your comments........?

Whether two people who have been in a relationship can be friends post breakup depends on the people involved. Some can, some can't.

In my experience, this depends on a lot of factors, including emotional maturity and having an abundance mindset about love and relationships.

Emotional maturity in this case means understanding that healthy relationships are always voluntary, and that a person who breaks up with you is not taking something away from you that belongs to you by right.

It also means understanding that feelings do not need to control behavior. (I have heard people say “you can't be friends with someone you have feelings for.”

This is only true if you are the sort of person whose actions are ruled by your feelings. You can truly love someone and still understand that you aren't good partners, accept that, and behave like a friend.)

An abundance model of relationships means believing that opportunities for love and connection abound. If you believe in “one true love” and “destiny,” you might think that losing a relationship means losing the only person you will ever be with and now you are destined to be alone and lonely forever and ever until the end of time.

Being friends with someone is strictly platonic, no sexual attraction or romantic feelings. If you’ve been lovers you’ve crossed that line of friendship into something else and once the relationship ends, I would say it’s next to impossible to go back to that point when things were platonic, at least not completely.

Your either lovers or your just friends but that is only my opinion. I hate it when people break up and say stuff like, “you’re still my best friend!”