How do you deal with someone who treats you like an option?

Honestly, the best thing to do is to kick that someone out of your life, and never look back.

The love of a woman is truly incomparable, and what you give will surely be returned tenfold.

I am waiting for someone who treats me special.

It hurts when you realize you aren’t as important to someone you thought you were.

You still mean everything to me. It doesn’t mean you get to be in my life anymore.

I let you in. And you completely destroyed me.

Don’t be afraid to start over. This time you’re not starting from scratch. You’re starting from experience.

Maybe it’s you, maybe it’s the other person, or maybe it’s just an irrational nagging feeling that is eating you up. There is no point really in trying to analyse and find out which one it is.

The analysis is not going to benefit anyone and is too much trouble for nothing. If there is anything that makes you feel bad, get yourself out of that "situation" and never look back.

If you can’t get yourself out of there due to whatever circumstances, be there but be detached until things work themselves out.

Also helps to treat people in the exact same way they treat you. Respect/affection/care is all a two way street. Love sometimes is not, but ideally should be. If it’s not, maybe it’s not the right thing for you. No point being over-caring and undervalued.

You may see yourself being alone for a while but then betters things will walk into your life! And for all that to be possible you need to have a busy purposeful life. Honestly do anything but wait around for that someone to come around and pick you.

If you look at it from the other person's POV, (point of view) you wouldn't treat someone you badly want in your life as an option. You would give them a place in your life willingly.

If you are not able to treat them as a priority, then it probably means you would be willing to let go of them pretty easily. In the interest of your well-being, do not be that person in someone else's life.

Honestly, the best thing to do is to kick that someone out of your life, and never look back.

The love of a woman is truly incomparable, and what you give will surely be returned tenfold.

I am waiting for someone who treats me special.

It hurts when you realize you aren’t as important to someone you thought you were.

You still mean everything to me. It doesn’t mean you get to be in my life anymore.

I let you in. And you completely destroyed me.

Don’t be afraid to start over. This time you’re not starting from scratch. You’re starting from experience.

Maybe it’s you, maybe it’s the other person, or maybe it’s just an irrational nagging feeling that is eating you up. There is no point really in trying to analyze and find out which one it is.

The analysis is not going to benefit anyone and is too much trouble for nothing. If there is anything that makes you feel bad, get yourself out of that "situation" and never look back.

If you can’t get yourself out of there due to whatever circumstances, be there but be detached until things work themselves out.

Also helps to treat people in the exact same way they treat you. Respect/affection/care is all a two way street. Love sometimes is not, but ideally should be. If it’s not, maybe it’s not the right thing for you. No point being over-caring and undervalued.

You may see yourself being alone for a while but then betters things will walk into your life! And for all that to be possible you need to have a busy purposeful life. Honestly do anything but wait around for that someone to come around and pick you.

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Thank you?…?If you look at it from the other person's POV, (point of view) you wouldn't treat someone you badly want in your life as an option. You would give them a place in your life willingly.

If you are not able to treat them as a priority, then it probably means you would be willing to let go of them pretty easily. In the interest of your well-being, do not be that person in someone else's life.

Don’t ever think that EVERYONE is so nice or so rough. Because we all are just humans.

Before you make any plan to deal with someone who treats you like an option. Take some time and think if that person really takes you as an option. Sometimes situations makes us to believe what they aren’t really. The real time with you gives you the answer.

When you feel that someone really takes you as an option. Then there is only one option for you - “stop caring” about them and proceed with your life.

Care towards a person brings all the pain and expectations. Which will finally result in sadness.

If you spend too long holding on to the one who treats you like an option, you’ll miss the one who treats you like you’re the Only One.

Stop breaking yourself down into bite-sized pieces to serve others. Stay whole and let them choke.

I’m not a second option. Either you choose me or you lose me.

My moral in life is simple, you treat me good and I’ll definitely treat you better.

Nobody deserves to be treated like an option.

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Having worked diligently from AM to PM, earning enough to support myself and my parents, being busy with work and bringing gifts for family, my life was sorted.

I gradually entered a new phase of life and started to like a girl. Filled with innocence, honesty, passion and having admired every act of her, I was completely spell bound by her mere presence.

After having a crush for a year, I gathered enough courage to express my feeling for her.

I was rejected for which I had no complaints. But later, our mutual friend told me that she found me too ugly to accept.

My confidence, self-esteem and heart got disintegrated. I felt helpless and couldn't look into the eyes of people.

Things that don't make noise, hurt the most.

Either, I had to accept her words and submit my self-esteem or fight with myself and earn my pride. I chose the latter.

What should a guy do, if girls treat him like an option and he is not a priority?

A girl like that doesn't deserve you. If she truly liked you, she'd always care for you and find time for you in spite of her priorities and routine.

You must act according to what's best for yourself and leave her, because you don't want to be anyone's second option when you can be someone's first, right?

Even being alone is better than that.

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Don’t ever think that EVERYONE is so nice or so rough. Because we all are just humans.

Before you make any plan to deal with someone who treats you like an option. Take some time and think if that person really takes you as an option. Sometimes situations makes us to believe what they aren’t really. The real time with you gives you the answer.

When you feel that someone really takes you as an option. Then there is only one option for you - “stop caring” about them and proceed with your life.

I’m not a second option. Either you choose me or you lose me.

My moral in life is simple, you treat me good and I’ll definitely treat you better.

Nobody deserves to be treated like an option.

Having worked diligently from AM to PM, earning enough to support myself and my parents, being busy with work and bringing gifts for family, my life was sorted.

I gradually entered a new phase of life and started to like a girl. Filled with innocence, honesty, passion and having admired every act of her, I was completely spell bound by her mere presence.

After having a crush for a year, I gathered enough courage to express my feeling for her.

I was rejected for which I had no complaints. But later, our mutual friend told me that she found me too ugly to accept.

My confidence, self-esteem and heart got disintegrated. I felt helpless and couldn't look into the eyes of people.

Things that don't make noise, hurt the most.

Either, I had to accept her words and submit my self-esteem or fight with myself and earn my pride. I chose the latter.

What should a guy do, if girls treat him like an option and he is not a priority?

A girl like that doesn't deserve you. If she truly liked you, she'd always care for you and find time for you in spite of her priorities and routine.

You must act according to what's best for yourself and leave her, because you don't want to be anyone's second option when you can be someone's first, right?

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