How do you allow Shadows to speak in your life? & How it affects your coaching business.. #SelfTalk #ShadowMastery
Alpa Kapadia Teli, PCC, Coach
Executive Coach for Leaders who want shift in BEING. I Shadow Mastery Facilitator I CEO & Founder- Ignite the Spark I Passionate Speaker
Would you like to learn how the Shadow Archetypes show up in our life?
What kind of conversations are they a part of?
(Let's say) Smita is a life coach. She has left her corporate job to become a coach.?
She is looking to find clients for her coaching business but has not been successful so far.
Based on her dominant archetype. This is how she would be self talking.?
Smita: "I'm really struggling to find clients for my coaching business. I've tried everything, but nothing seems to be working.
The Victim: "It's not fair! I'm doing everything right, but nothing is going my way. Why does everything always have to be so hard for me?"
The Victim archetype within Smita is causing her to feel powerless & hopeless in the face of her struggles. She blames external circumstances or other people, instead of taking responsibility for her own actions. Recognizing this archetype can help her realize that she has the power to change her situation and take control of her life.
The Saboteur: "Maybe you're not cut out for this. Maybe you should just give up and find a regular job with a steady income. It's not worth all this stress and uncertainty."
The Saboteur archetype within Smita is causing her to self-sabotage her efforts to find clients. She may have an underlying fear of success or failure that is driving this behavior. Recognizing this archetype can help her overcome her fears and focus on taking positive actions towards her goals.
The Prostitute: "Maybe I should lower my prices or offer some free sessions to lure my clients. It's not ideal, but at least it's something."
The Prostitute archetype within Smita is causing her to compromise her values or beliefs for personal gain. She may be considering lowering her prices or offering free sessions to attract clients. Recognizing this archetype can help her stay true to her values and find ways to attract clients that align with her beliefs.
The Child: "Why does this have to be so hard? Why can't someone else do this for me? I don't want to deal with this."
The Child archetype within Smita is causing her to feel helpless and rely on others to fix her problems. She may feel overwhelmed by the task of finding clients and wish that someone else could do it for her. Recognizing this archetype can help her take responsibility for her own actions and find the courage to take positive steps towards her goals.
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So what can you do to integrate these archetypes and overcome your obstacles?
As a Shadow Mastery Coach, I specialize in helping people like you explore the archetypes within them and overcome the patterns that are sabotaging their success. We'll work together to identify your pain points, and develop strategies to help you overcome them. Equipped with this tool and support, You will be able to break the pattern of these sabotaging self talks and create the life you truly desire.
Is it simple? - Yes
Is it easy ? - NO
We'll be exploring some uncomfortable truths and confronting some deep-seated fears. But if you're willing to do the work, the results will be worth it. You'll unleash your power, tap into your full potential, and transform your life coaching business into the success you've always envisioned.
Don't let your archetypes hold you back any longer. Schedule a one-on-one call with me today and take the first step toward your transformation. I'm here to help you achieve the success you deserve.
If you have been on the edge so far and want to dive in to this intense 8 week course and Master Your Shadows, that has started today - 13th April 2023, I'd like you to take a good look at the program here . The first live call is on 20th April. and email me at [email protected]
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