How to start a #startup and lead a #satisfying #life.

This article is not about, Business cases and plans to impress investors. Its just an list of some tips to open eyes of many and possible reasons that you are leading monotonous life! some are well to do as well and doing good savings too but in spite of success in building a capital more then they ever imagined, They are not taking a giant step to actually Live and enjoy their life. What will you do with your wealth after 50? Wake up and get a life, Do something for your self and others too.

There are many of those, who have not build a desired capital and stuck in fancying others success and living a sad life .. So lets try to touch some points, reasons and ways to break them.

1. Why does a common human being always fancied to look and feel the grass on the other’s side is greener? Why doesn’t he concentrate on himself, his own potential and internal happiness from self-development?
2. It’s not their fault, Human race has been programmed by so-called society and our elders has been passing down same subconsciously to our throat to ensure the continuity of this syndrome.
3. We only see what is noticeable though, we don’t see the hard labor, the time and effort that they have to put in to get their life to this level! And to be candid, you need to remember that we only see what people allow us to see.
4. Instead of focusing on the things we have been blessed with and being grateful for them, we find it easier to think about all of the things we haven’t got and the things we are waiting for and get envy of others, who had the courage , plan and took action to achieve it. Instead of being grateful, happy, content with our lot, we are clamoring for something more, something that other people have.
5. The child born with innocence and his loves for himself but our parents, elders and teachers dent and drill that till it’s reversed.
6. Parenting/bossing with fear-based motivation and comparison: do this or else…., do that or else….., look at him or her and who not, you grow with peer pressure and customized to set a benchmark of your capabilities based on your neighbor, relatives, and school children and colleagues.
7. Look at outside things first and make the responsibility for your failure. You get filled with my luck is not good, God is not with me, because of this and that’s……. it’s never-ending.
8. No external factor and divine power can do well for you. You have to find your own strengths, liking, and area’s to improve and just stay busy with work on yourself.

It’s OK to take some help to get better on skills. Self-believe, thick skin (don’t get disheartened), don’t give up (get up again), high self-esteem (you can do it better in next attempt after some hard work and practice)

If you happen to find a time to read a biopic of any great leader of any field, you will come to know that these people were and are the common human brain that was wired with above extra ordinary attributes and persistence to pursue their dreams.

• Be it any successful scientist, warrior, corporate guru or sportsman Never have time to look at other's grass and spend time in envy, guilt and regret and a tiny island of the doubt. They were lucky enough that their self-love did not get dented or could not be destroyed. They did not care about others and thought of someone else before they wanted to do something and result- No fear of FAILURE.
• The ONLY thing they visualize is success and love. But unfortunately, most of us could not protect our born self-love and positive nature and joins a rat race and end up living a life to pay your bills. This is not living.
• We see others with a distance with a mask of smile and we feel that their smile and happiness is true. Everyone keeps a distance and mask of the smile. You don’t know anyone in reality. You just think, Oh he is happy to let’s find what he does to be happy like him and start a race of being other and losing yourself.
• The only difference is these objects to copy and race, keep changing.

Everyone here is #faking to each other and everyone is alone and unhappy as he is not having a thing, which bright start he is looking at.

• He will not genuinely #help others, treat well others and will not be happy with other progress.
• Great and #successful people stay full of #love and give same to others by helping and not faking.
• So wake up and look at the grass you have down your feet and water it, fertilize it and protect it.
• Stop chasing others fake life and be yourself, work on your own potentials. You will feel secure, loved and successful.
• Think of, the neighbor’s lawn hasn’t just occurred. They have had to put time, struggle and get-up-and-go into the upkeep and maintenance of it. And as deliriously as we look at theirs wishing we had one just similar it if they could effortlessly give it to us, but, we would still have to conserve it wouldn’t we? Or you will again start looking at some other lawn again and forgot yours.

In Short : Love your self, See your dreams, Believe in dreams comes true, Protect your self from those people , who have 10 reasons to tell you, why it wont work. Don't leave working on the Plan, Keep gathering information, Preparation and take a Action, Get out of your comfort zone and build something in your life before you loose all energy, dreams in a race of paying your bills.

Written by- https://www.dhirubhai.net/in/abhishekguptaa/

 #nevergiveup, #motivation #besuccessful