How To Define Your Core Values

What do you consider as your core values? I have core values and you do too! Our core values are the root belief system that we operate from. They are the principal perspectives that guide us in our decision making process.

Here are a few suggestions in determining our core values.

1. Contemplate: Go to a quiet area where you can reflect in silence. Use a notebook or journal, and turn off your phone. Begin with the question, "What do I value most in life?"
2. Openness: On the next page, reflect on the topic of authenticity. Like, when do I feel like myself? Is it when you are with certain people and doing certain things, or does that make you feel uncomfortable? Are you just trying to "fit in"? Think about your underlying emotions. Be honest with yourself.
3. Respect: Who do you admire and respect the most? Write down the names of three people that you highly respect. Jot down words next to their names and describe why you admire or look up to them. What characterics do they have that you admire?
4. Excitement: Think about what or who inspires you the most to take action? Many times we are encouraged to find our "WHY"! Is it to have more impact on others, fame, money, charity, or travel? These are just a few ideas.

Take your time in reflecting on these ideas. Get a highlighter and circle the top five values that you feel that align with you. Use some type of reminder, ie., phone wallpaper, or something that you can see regularly, to help guide you in your tough decisions.