HOW TO DECIDE, 'IT IS RIGHT FOR ME?'

Imagine yourself as a child in a beach, playing around in sand, nothing have to worry about and suddenly you see the ocean, how would you say to yourself that, 'it is right for myself to stay in the shore and not go into the waters it can be dangerous?' or 'let's go into the waters and it will be so fun I will learn and experience something new?'. Well obviously as a child it is difficult to decide what is good or bad, because we always go for the things that gives us pleasure, but now the question arises, as an adult how would we decide that we are good on the shore rather than going into the waters? what if the negative outcomes of the both held us back to do the both. Wow, what a stage of dilemma, then how to go for the things ? how to say it is right for me?

Well according to me the goodness or the badness of the thing can be only decided by the outcome of it and the interesting fact is that we never can predict the exact outcome, there always will be at least 0.1% chance of false prediction. So what to do? I believe there are two options, else you can sit on the shore and stare at the ocean and think rather to jump into the waters or not for the rest of your live, or else you can go and jump into the waters without having any second thought of it. And I will execute the plan before having a second thought because regret is much more intense than failure.

Enjoy what you have now, don't waste your time to think about the consequences because not predicting what you cannot predict an exact 100% is much better than to letting the movement go.

So here's the thing, be the child who goes for pleasure and don't ever held himself/herself back. However it too comes with a balance like the every other things in the universe.