How to deal with inferiority..........?
MATTHEW M. SEGAALI
Private Banking Entrepreneur,MMS Investments Private Lender's Network (PLN) Consists of Individuals Investors,IRA'S , I AM AN INVESTOR
Research has indicated that hypnosis at least 95 percent of the people have their lives blighted by feelings of inferiority to some extent, and to millions this same feeling of inferiority is a serious handicap to success and happiness.
In one sense of the world every person on the face of the earth is inferior to some other people. "I cannot do that, I have failed a number of times, I cannot do certain things skillfully or as well as they do."
The American Psychological Association , defines an Inferiority Complex as?a basic feeling of Inadequacy And Insecurity, Deriving From Actual or Imagined Physical or Psychological Deficiency.
Feelings of Inferiority originate not so much from "facts" or experiences, but our conclusions regarding facts and our evaluation of experiences.
This feeling of inferiority comes about for just one reason: we judge ourselves, and measure ourselves ,not against our own "norm" or "par" but against some other individuals "norm."
Our reasoning concludes that we not" worthy" that we do not deserve success or happiness, and that we would be out of place for us to fully express our own abilities and values whatever they might be ,without apology, or without feeling guilty about it.
Thus the best and quickest way to overcome inferiority is to stop measuring yourself against "their standards." You are not "them" and can never measure up. Once you practice this ,your inferior will feelings will vanish.
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