How to deal with haters!

How to deal with haters!

How to Deal with Haters

  • This is so cheesy! You're just copying what others are saying! Shame on you!
  • Previously, you were just a language instructor. Now you've turned into a business consultant?! You're a scam!
  • You're trying to rip people off by teaching them to become rich! It's pathetic!

These are some of the comments that I got on my social media pages during the past month, and as somebody with a pretty big following; I get similar messages every single day. When you're trying to build your brand and grow your business; this is what happens to you: Hateful messages, and they HURT! Yes, hateful messages hurt, and their negative effects sometimes last for days and months! And to make things worse; we humans suffer from "Negativity Bias" which means that things of a negative nature affect us much stronger than neutral or positive things. So even if you get a hundred positive comments on a post and just one negative comment; that negative comment stays with you longer.

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