HOW TO CONTROL JEALOUSY IN RELATIONSHIP
Peace Chinenye
Women Coach//Founder Women Of Purpose//Content Writing Trainer// Social Media Management and Ads Trainer
Research has shown that jealousy can be a sign of feeling deeply in love with a partner.
Though jealousy is the fear of losing something or someone to a third person. In most cases, it is not a sign of insecurity.
When you truly love someone, you won't want to lose that person. Even God emphatically said, "I am a jealous God". So being jealous of someone you love is normal.
Jealousy helps you appreciate your partner especially when you know that other people are attracted to them too.
When you are in a relationship with a partner who does not feel jealous when they see the opposite sex getting too close to you, check their love for you.
We cannot remove jealousy from love, we can only control it.
Abnormal jealousy, also called pathological or extreme jealousy, is a sign of insecurity.?
? Here, your partner does not want you to speak and relate with your friends.
? Demands your attention all the time.
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? Constantly wanting to know where and who you are with.
? Have low self-esteem.
? Monitors your texts, calls, and emails.
Abnormal jealousy has ruined and ended many relationships. You need to control it if that relationship must last.
How to Control Jealousy in Relationship:
When you find it difficult to set boundaries in your relationship by discussing your feelings over some issues with your partner, this can lead to insecurity and lack of trust. It can also ruin your relationship.
frilans
2 年Buen día y gracias
frilans
2 年Buen día y gracias
frilans
2 年Buen día
Internationally Certified Snr. HR Professional with background in M&A, Leadership, Change, Governance & Ethics (LCGE), Stakeholders Management, Top Executives Advisory on People & Culture Management.
2 年Very insightful and an interesting read, Peace Chinenye ?? Jealousy is usually misconstrued as fear or insecurity by many. True love births jealousy. However, it should be kept in check. If it's not, it becomes threatening and fearful. Talking to counsellors, admitting it's there and talking about it with your partner, like you mentioned, becomes the only pathway to salvation and stabilising the condition. Grea piece girl! ??
frilans
2 年Buen día y gracias