How to Connect With the Rich & Successful - Javnyuy Joybert
Joybert Javnyuy
Agile Business Analyst || Agile Coach || Scrum Master || Product Manager || Workplace Soft Skills Trainer ||
Here is one truth about building relationships with successful people…?
There are many people that no matter how much you desire to meet them, until you rise up to their level you may never meet them. Until you stand on the same platforms with them you will never meet them.?
It is not pride on their side, it is just that there is that gap that exists.?
They do not even know you exist. It gets difficult to meet them because they are up there and you are right down there.?
The difference could be social class, financial levels, level of education, geographical differences (living in different expensive cities and countries) etc.?
Until you are able to rise and be able to stand on the same platform with them, you may never reach them. Or someone you know or who knows you can hold your hand and lift you up to meet them.?
For example, they drive while you trek or use public transport.
They spend weekends and holidays in different cities in 5x hotels while you stay in the house
They eat in luxury restaurants which you cannot afford
They hangout with the fellow men in their class which you cannot appear...all these create barriers.?
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So instead of calling them names, back biting them, fighting them on social media, gossiping about them in your gossip council which they will never hear, learn the art of networking, learn the art of becoming so valuable (skillful) that they cannot ignore you, learn the art of minding your business and working on yourself, career and business that you become successful that you can be in places and platforms where these people hangout.
And hey, you must not associate with the upper class, you can decide to just do life on your terms, manage average and see how it goes.?
And please do not believe in that crap that people say “ God alone will help me, I do not need any man”.?
Yes, God will help you by using men and women to help you. God rules in the affairs of men through men. The hearts of Kings and Queens are in His hands.? Put God first place.???
Another funny truth, many people are performing below their potential because they have not met the right people who can harness them.?
As I always say, everything we are praying, God will never leave heaven to come give you. No no, He has deposited it in people and it is your responsibility to network and create relationships.?
In all, keep moving forward. Keep growing. Keep becoming better. Be humble and be kind to the next human around you. Do not settle for less…!!?
Cheers
Javnyuy Joybert
Passionate about driving organizational success through accurate financial data and fraud detection. With expertise in budgeting, and strategic decision-making, I empower businesses to achieve transparency and growth.
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