How to Collaborate Your Way to Better Negotiations
Kwame Christian, Esq., M.A.
Top Booked Negotiation Keynote Speaker | #1 Negotiation Podcast
Hello, my friends!?
I am excited to share this week's featured episode,?The Power of Collaborative Negotiation: Insights from Mark D. !
Collaborative negotiation is a powerful approach that can lead to long-term benefits for companies and individuals alike. However, myths and misunderstandings about collaboration prevent many people from seeing its importance in negotiations.
Mark Davis, an expert in negotiation and cultural navigation, argues that people have been taught to prioritize short-term success over long-term benefits. This mindset can lead to destructive negotiation tactics that harm relationships and reputation in the long run. Collaboration, on the other hand, can lead to greater resilience and tolerance for uncertainty, as well as open up opportunities for innovation and attract a diverse audience.
To balance authenticity and firmness in communication without compromising values or desecrating relationships, it is important to blend collaboration and assertiveness. This requires considering the context and understanding the marketplace, as well as being aware of the negotiation culture of one's counterpart and the environment they are operating in. By asking questions and understanding the motivations and drivers of both parties, negotiators can determine how collaborative or competitive the environment is and make decisions accordingly.
The legacy of corporate mass scale negotiation is that it is very rigid and doesn't allow for other approaches. However, with today's hyper-connected world, it's difficult to maintain a facade and credibility can be easily questioned. Reputation matters more than ever, and it's no longer possible to do a deal and walk away without consequences. Collaboration is a more sustainable approach to negotiation that can lead to greater long-term benefits and value creation.
It is important to distinguish between short-term and long-term thinking when considering the benefits of collaboration. Short-term metrics can incentivize destructive negotiation tactics, but such actions can lead to long-term consequences, including revenge that could harm a company's interests. Being flexible and adaptable in negotiations can lead to reciprocal flexibility from others, creating relationships that can withstand the test of time and benefit companies in the long term.
In conclusion, collaborative negotiation is a powerful approach that can lead to greater long-term benefits and value creation. By blending collaboration and assertiveness, considering the context and understanding the marketplace, and being aware of the negotiation culture and environment, negotiators can navigate the balance between authenticity and firmness in communication without compromising values or desecrating relationships. The key is to prioritize long-term benefits over short-term success, and to embrace collaboration as a more sustainable approach to negotiation.
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Have a wonderful weekend!
Kwame
CEO & Founder of American Negotiation Institute
Chief Executive Officer specializing in Business Operations and Data Science
1 年I know I say it all the time sir, but always worth the time Kwame! ??
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1 年It was great to be on your podcast Kwame Christian, Esq., M.A.!
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1 年There's a lot people need to un-learn about "traditional" negotiation attitudes
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1 年Thanks for posting.