How Coachable Are You? Unlocking Your Potential Through Feedback and Personal Growth
Carlos Batista
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If you want to scale the heights of business leadership, how open are you to feedback, self-improvement, and operating outside your comfort zone? Research confirms that the most successful leaders view themselves as works in progress and remain hungry to keep enhancing their management toolkit throughout their careers. In contrast, executives who believe they have all the answers often end up compromising productivity and stakeholder relationships without even realizing it.
So on a scale of 1 to 10, how coachable are you? Coaching enables leaders to identify their development areas through another lens, and then create targeted action plans for unlocking the next level of their potential. However, for many driven entrepreneurs and founders, the very idea of being coached can initially trigger resistance or denial. In reality, the most coachable leaders are often already high achievers who wish to amplify their impact further. The earlier in your career, you embrace being challenged, the more you compound positive gains over decades.
Start By Getting Comfortable With Discomfort
Stepping outside long-held habits and assumptions creates psychic unease – but breakthrough growth lives outside your comfort zone. The key is distinguishing destructive distress from constructive dissonance which expands your perspectives and behavioral repertoire. As Marcus Aurelius noted, “What stands in the way becomes the way.” Feedback often feels subjectively uncomfortable or even threatening. Yet if you aspire to keep developing new leadership muscles as you guide an organization through scaling challenges, regularly soliciting diverse input is crucial. Resist pushing back against or dismissing the messenger. Instead, develop the self-awareness to notice emotional triggers, and then extract value from what may subjectively feel like criticism.
Cultivating Growth-Oriented Relationships
Who currently delivers direct feedback that helps you course-correct and progress? Many executives surround themselves with supportive advisers who filter messages in preferenced ways. While moral support has its place, cloistering ourselves in echo chambers stunts development. Seek relationships with mentors and coaches who care enough to question your blind spots and point out counterproductive behaviors. Recognize that your commitment to self-improvement builds your credibility as a role model and attracts developmental relationships.
Getting More Skilled At Receiving Feedback
When delivered artfully, even painful feedback can catalyze growth by revealing areas for improvement you had not recognized. However, many recipients compound the discomfort by resisting or rebutting the input. Highly coachable leaders view feedback opportunities as gifts. Rather than disputing or deflecting, listen openly without immediate judgment. Then review the insights later to discern what may hold merit vs subjective criticism you can discard. Reflection questions like, “What might I do differently next time to benefit the business?” shift the focus to productive action steps rather than ego threats. Over time, regularly receiving feedback thickens your skin in constructive ways, allowing you to better differentiate between distortion and wise counsel.
Widening Your Self-Awareness Aperture
For busy founders and executives already navigating immense responsibilities, taking time for structured self-reflection may sound self-indulgent. Yet regularly zooming out to review your leadership impact yields meta-insights unavailable in the heat of daily delivery. Do team members experience you as authentic and approachable – or arrogant and unwilling to explain the reasoning behind decisions? Are you focused narrowly on customer acquisition metrics without considering longer-term loyalty drivers? Stepping back intermittently pays dividends in terms of realigning activities with your core mission and values.
Part of tempering ego involves identifying unconscious biases that may unconsciously influence your judgment calls. For example, research shows that leaders often favor team members of the same gender or those who display similar work styles. Seeking inputs from a diverse range of observers can reveal “blind spots” you have about how others experience you. Finding the courage to ask, “How am I getting in my way?” opens the door to exponential growth.
Embracing Coaching as Ongoing Practice Not Remedial Intervention
In earlier eras, executives often viewed seeking coaching as signaling weakness or lack of competence at their jobs. Today’s wisest leaders instead understand recurring coaching as turbocharging their developmental journeys over time. They see being coached not as a threat but as their secret weapon for sustaining high performance amid constantly rising stakes. Just as world-class athletes retain coaches throughout their careers to keep honing technique and strategy, world-class executives know that sustainable success requires continually expanding their repertoires as challenges evolve. Only perpetual learners can thrive in today’s warp-speed business landscape.
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So in what specific areas might a coach help sharpen your leadership capabilities right now? Perhaps certain situations routinely aggravate you and rob time and attention. Or important business relationships have deteriorated for unclear reasons. Or talented team members keep defecting while you scratch your head, confused. A seasoned coach leverages assessment tools with your permission – from 360 feedback surveys to personality assessments to structured behavioral interviews - revealing growth areas hidden in plain sight. By maintaining a coachable stance as CEO, you model perpetual learning for the wider organization.
In Sum, business today unfolds too dynamically for any leader to remain static without risking displacement. How open are you to sometimes uncomfortable growth triggers that expand your impact? The costs of clinging to rigid habits only escalate. But seen through a lens of continual improvement, what first appears subjectively like criticism becomes useful input for reaching new heights. Developing greater coachability as an executive distinguishes those who sustain high performance amid adversity from those who plateau and fade. So ask yourself today: on a scale from 1 to 10, how willing are you to be challenged on blind spots that may currently inhibit your leadership? Your self-awareness in answering truthfully determines your trajectory from here.
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Carlos Batista
Business Transformation & Growth Specialist
Life & Business Strategist. MBA, MA Psychology, ICF. CEO, Kaspari Life Academy. Host of the Unshakeable People Podcast. Habits & Behaviour Design, Neuroscience. I shape MINDS and build LEADERS.
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