How to close the success gap ??

I have failed a lot! and you know what, I love it! ??????

Do you know why?

Success is proportional to our failures.

Meaning the more failures we make, the closer we get to success.

But you know what's crazy? society programs us to fear failing!

Fear of failure is one of the most common fears we have. Which ultimately means we are programmed to fear success.

Why is that?

Well, everything happens for a reason.

Take a look at the schooling system, are you taught to find another way if you make a mistake?

Sure! In the early years you are taught to find another way and try again, and again... and again, until you succeed.

But what happens as you progress through school?

Before long you are expected to succeed first time, taught that there is only one answer, shown a norm and if you fall outside that, you fail.

And instead of allowing you to adjust your approach, innovate, think laterally, re-calibrate and try again and again until you succeed... you are excluded.

You are told... "maybe this isn't for you"

No wonder being successful is such an exclusive club.

How can you break down this fear and build confidence?

The same way you break any fear...

Do more of it!

Try something new and fail the s@#t out of it! Do it again and again and again...

Because here's the thing, can you fail if you never stop trying?