How to choose the best dating coach as a successful single

There are thousands of singles across Switzerland who want to find love but don’t know where to start. Getting support from an expert seems like a great idea but how do you really know who to trust with such an important task? It may seem dramatic but really, working with the best dating coach can change your whole life.

Successful Singles Struggle With Dating

I founded my company, SuccessMatch, in 2005 and, as an award-winning dating expert and elite matchmaker, my expertise comes from decades of experience. I know what I offer my single clients today is far beyond what most dating and matchmaking agencies offer because I started off just like them.

I worked for years in HR with high-level executives and one thing that so many of them had in common was that they were successful in all areas of their lives except for the most important one: they were single and most of them?were barely if at all, dating.

It’s easy to fall into a vicious cycle where you put all your energy into your professional life, which limits the amount of personal life you have but because you don’t have someone to go home to you end up dedicating even more time to your professional life.

Love Doesn’t Just “Happen”

It’s a common belief that when the time is right, love will just happen to you and so time goes by and… nothing happens. One day you wake up realizing that you haven’t been on a real date in years, aren’t exactly ‘close’ to being in a relationship and are even further away from settling down and starting a family, all of which you imagined would happen before you were forty. If you do the math you’ll quickly realize that you’re working against the clock at this point. Don't worry, if this sounds like you, you are NOT alone. And I'm here to help.

When I asked many of those high-level executive singles what they needed across the board to succeed in their personal lives, they all said they needed to be set up on dates with like-minded singles since they didn’t have time to meet people.

And so, early on when I first started my matchmaking and dating service, I did just that and set up lots of first dates for the singles that I worked with. There was some success but many ended up in the same situation that they started in, single, and I knew that there had to be a better way.

The Missing Ingredient to Dating Success

I decided to go back to school and become the best dating coach for my professional and driven clients. I studied the science behind love and relationships and learned that just going on dates was not going to set these singles up for success. To help them transition from where they are when they contact me, to make the long-lasting connections they longed for would take more work but I knew that it would be possible with all that I had learned.

I discovered what was missing in the traditional approach of most dating and matchmaking services and spent years designing and perfecting my science-backed date coaching program and the results speak for themselves.

For singles who have come to the conclusion that whatever they have been doing so far is notworking, and realize that unless they change something, nothing is going to change, choosing the right support is crucial.

Invest the time to research in finding the best dating coach. After all they can help you meet the most important person in your life!

If you believe that all it takes to succeed is being set up on dates and you sign up with a random dating or matchmaking agency, you will likely be throwing money away.

Tips For Choosing the Best Dating Coach

Consciously choose the person you want to work with to help you find your life partner. To succeed, you need to be ready to make changes in your life that will help you find and maintain a committed relationship. Here’s what to look for when hiring a dating coach:

Proven Track Record and Exceptionally High Success Rates

The number one reason clients come to SuccessMatch is because they hear about the incredible long-term success rate. 100% of my clients date during the program (even those clients that have not dated in many years) and 85% of those who commit to the program finish in long-term relationships.

The key to such high success rates is our holistic approach of:

• Being the right partner
• Finding the right partner
• Choosing the right partner

SuccessMatch isn’t about exchanging money for dates, but about preparing you to find and maintain a successful relationship. Throughout the program, we help you build the relationship skills that will serve you in your romantic life.

The start of any relationship is incredibly fragile and anything can happen, but with the skills and support to build a healthy foundation, relationships are given a much better chance at success.

You can read more here?about a client of mine, Wendy, who had worked with two other agencies before coming to SuccessMatch and then within 8 months of joining the program she met her now husband with whom she’s gone on to have two beautiful children.

Stories like this are quite common with my clients. With the right support, you can discover what it is that has been going wrong for you and quickly get back on track to find exactly what you’re looking for.

When you’re willing to commit to learn, do and put in place what is needed, and you get the right support, you set yourself up to achieve everything you’ve always wanted.

Transformation in Your Love Life and Other Areas, Too

Hiring the best dating coach is an investment in yourself and your future – it is about real transformation. Have you ever been so close to a problem that you lost sight of the big picture? At SuccessMatch we support you to help you in a holistic way to:

• See the blind spots
• Identify and change limiting beliefs and
• Develop the skills to overcome anything that might get in the way of your goal

While traditional dating and matchmaking agencies are all about the dates and introduction, my process goes way beyond that to give you the self-awareness, communication tools and relationship skills to not just go on a date and date successfully, but to find and create a long-lasting relationship.

Lots of clients say what they learn in the program helps them in other areas of their lives. Gaining perspective about who you are, what you want and what you need and being able to communicate that with clarity and grace is a game-changer.

A recent client, Maria, told me that what she learned in my program has also helped her in her career. In her most recent performance evaluation with her boss, she was able to communicate clearly and objectively what her needs were and how she needed to be supported by management and by her team.

‘‘I suddenly felt heard and that my boss who previously ‘just didn’t get it,’ seemed to be 100% on the same page as me.’’

Being able to stand up and speak up for yourself and your needs with grace and clarity is important in all of your relationships whether that be with friends or family, professionally and especially romantically.

While our success rate is incredibly high, we do occasionally have people who enter a relationship that later ends for one reason or another. Because of what they learn in the program, they have the tools and skills they need to create new opportunities. After completing the program these people don’t have to go back to where they were before. They aren’t starting from scratch. In fact, they already have all the skills that they need.

When working with traditional dating or matchmaking services, if the relationship doesn’t work out then you have to go back to them and depend on them to set you up on more dates because you’re still lacking the tools to do it on your own. With SuccessMatch the transformation starts with you.

Empowerment to Shape Your Relationship and Your Life

When you hire a dating agency or matchmaker, you give up your control over the most important area of your life and you agree to take a passive approach. The passive approach is essentially throwing money at a problem and hoping it will work out.

SuccessMatch takes an active, empowering approach. We put you in the driver's seat and allow you to take control of this part of your life and create the relationship you want.

I frequently hear from singles that have worked with matchmaking or dating services that they felt happy to pay someone a lot of money to just pass the responsibility of their private life on to and that in the end they felt it was all about a transaction instead of a change and often felt disappointed when they did not end up with their ideal partner. If you choose this way then you will likely get exactly that, an exchange of goods. You give your money and get the number of dates that you pay for, end of story.

The problem with this model is that getting dates isn’t actually your problem. Now more than ever, ‘just getting a date’ is actually the easiest part of the process.

Going on dates without the support you need is a sure way to keep making the same mistakes you’ve been making all along, whether you realize it or not.

Take Your Love Life In Your Own Hands

Just going on dates is a band-aid for your problem, it doesn’t actually address the real issues.

Instead, you need the skills, transformation and personal growth that will actually help you as you begin dating and start forming the foundations for real relationships.

You can create the relationship and life that you want. Stop being a passive participant in your personal life and start being an active empowered creator of your (love) life. I always tell my clients, “I can’t do the work for you but you don’t have to do it alone. I am here for you.’’

If you are committed to finally having love in your life and are willing to take an active role in making that happen, but need support from the right source then?click here for a complimentary consultation, I would love to speak with you.