How Bias and Language Shape Negotiation Outcomes with Yuri Kruman

In this week’s featured episode we had the pleasure of hosting Yuri Kruman ???? , a seasoned HR consultant, executive coach, and acclaimed writer, who shared his invaluable expertise on the significance of language and overcoming biases in negotiation.

We also take a deep dive into overcoming biases and harnessing the power of language to shape reality.

??? Key Insights from Yuri Kruman:

1. The Power of Language

- Creating Internal and External Realities:

Yuri emphasizes how the words we use influence our self-perception and interpersonal communications. By changing our language, we can reshape our realities.

- Neuroscientific Insights:

Learn how language affects our brain and cognition, driving behavior and negotiation outcomes.

2. Recognizing and Addressing Biases:

- Identifying Biases:

Yuri shares how to recognize and fix internal biases against oneself and others, and he shares poignant personal experiences.

- Breaking the Cycle:

Overcoming limited exposure and breaking the cycle of self-defeating biases is crucial for effective negotiations.

3. Setting Realistic Expectations:

- High Standards vs. Unrealistic Aspirations:

Yuri discusses the importance of managing expectations for both oneself and others to avoid perpetual disappointment and achieve meaningful goals.

- Negotiating for What You Truly Want:

Practical steps to ensure your negotiation efforts align with your true desires and values.

4. Self-Awareness and Personal Growth:

- From Personal Mission to Success:

Finding personal mission, creating meaning, and understanding that true success is a byproduct of these actions.

- Mental Models and Gamification:

Utilizing mental frameworks and gamification to access higher levels of thinking and measure success based on personal potential.

5. Yuri's New Book:

- Be Your Own Commander in Chief:

Yuri introduces his latest book, aiming to foster self-awareness and personal growth by integrating life subjects horizontally and applying scientific principles.

Check out the episode to dive deep into all of these insights and more!

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