How to become a Power Couple
Greg Gillies
Holistic Life Coach to Married Businessmen - Evolve & Balance your 9 Pillars of Success, Love and Happiness
I’ve worked with 100s of married businessmen who felt their marriage was failing?
Here is what I’ve heard, its honest, its raw but its the truth about what's going on for so many successful couples who have fallen out of alignment???
Here’s how it plays out…
During your honeymoon period, you were both excited about your future… you were going to conquer the world and create a level of success, love, and happiness beyond your wildest dreams?
You were both on the same page and aligned…??
You both worked hard, hustled, started businesses, or climbed the corporate ladder, you brought property, investments, shares, etc to get ahead?
Things were going great, and you did everything you could to be in a strong financial position before starting a family?
Then you started having a family together?
You focused on building the business and finances whilst your wife focused on raising the children, running the home, and supporting you as much as possible?
Then something changed, it took time, it was subtle, but it happened …
Your wife becomes consumed with being a Mum, raising the kids, day-to-day demands, and possibly juggling her career or business …?
You witnessed the fatigue take its toll on her,? you tried to encourage her to push through, hoping one day as the kids got older she would bounce back?
Meanwhile, you took on years of stress, pressures, and demands of building your business and creating the finances to support the family?
Even when you felt unmotivated and exhausted you kept pushing through because this is the only way you knew how to keep driving the dream of achieving an extraordinary life.?
You’ve become resentful & unappreciated by your wife and kids for the incredible life and financial support you give them … to be honest, you often feel like an ATM
You never gave up on the dreams of an even greater future and you never will, but your wife isn’t on the same page anymore and she uses this against you?
Your wife wants you to slow down, and just be happy and content, but you feel your happiest when winning at business?
You're trying to spend more time at home to appease your wife and be more present, but you get bored and start scrolling your phone looking at property, cars, other opportunities to make more money, and even porn just to stay stimulated?
This causes more fights and arguments as she says things like:
“You don’t help enough at home”, “you’re never happy”, “you're never present”, “you never listen” …?
You’re so sick of the same fighting, so you just shut down to avoid the conflict instead
You feel angry and frustrated as you’ve created this amazing lifestyle and finances that your wife and kids get to enjoy … but instead of gratitude you get problems, complaining, and negativity
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It's infuriating and drives you crazy, everyone in your business life builds you up … but your wife seems to pull you down!?
You want your wife back, the positive, excited one, the one that supported and shared in your audacious goals and visions for the future?
You’re drifting apart and you don’t know how to fix it…
Look I get it, I’ve worked with extremely powerful individuals & couples who have had this EXACT EXPERIENCE.
You actually both want the same thing but the misalignment and communication are killing your marriage…
AND ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.??
I can promise you not only can you get your marriage back, but you can make it even better than it was at its absolute best?
Here is the secret to becoming a power couple even if you have experienced everything I mentioned above:
What's most important is you can’t just do the work yourself.
This is a marriage. A coupling. A commitment. A journey. An adventure.??
This is your FUTURE…
If you want to get to true power couple status you’ll both need to do the work?
However, this does start with you, you’ll need to drop your Ego and make the commitment to turn this around instead of pointing the finger and blaming your wife?
We are the best in the world at reprogramming the mind, healing deep survival stress in the body, and awakening powerful individual's highest spiritual gifts?
And I know you and your wife will become aligned, in love again, and unstoppable if you both took this journey?
It's just going to start with you committing… Are you in?
Talk soon
Greg
Chief Executive Officer, AIM WA | Emeritus Professor | Social Trends | Workplace Strategist | Workplace Trend Spotter | Columnist | Director| LinkedIn Top Voice 2018 | Speaker | Content Creator
2 年Unlock Peak Performance By Building Unshakable Resilience | International Keynote Speaker | Helping Teams Thrive Without Burnout | Ex-Tesla Leader | 1,000+ Professionals Transformed
2 年Great article Greg Gillies. It can be easy to point the finger at others, but the path towards growth and repairing our lives towards a better future begins with us holding ourselves accountable to showing up as our best selves in all aspects of our life. This can require taking an honest look at how we view and treat ourselves, so we can begin to repair our relationship with ourselves and our definition of success first. From that place of unconditional love, we can then begin supporting our loved ones as they need us too. Wishing you a great day ahead my friend, keep up the great work!
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2 年Such a great read Greg Gillies, we have to be willing to do the work to heal and come back into realignment with our spouses.
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2 年You guys rock Greg Gillies + Tracey Gillies - Spiritual Medium, Energy Healer. What a power couple!! ????
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2 年A partner can overcome any struggle if they face it hand-in-hand and side-by-side. Great share, Greg Gillies.