How to Beat Imposter Syndrome as a Manager (and Why It Might Be a Good Sign)

How to Beat Imposter Syndrome as a Manager (and Why It Might Be a Good Sign)

Imagine this: You just got promoted to Head of Product. Your LinkedIn is buzzing with congratulations, your team looks to you for direction… and deep down, you’re thinking:

“Oh no. They made a mistake. I have no idea what I’m doing.”

Sound familiar?

Welcome to Imposter Syndrome, the sneaky voice in your head whispering that you’re not good enough, even when the evidence says otherwise.

But here’s the thing: Some of the best minds in history — Einstein, Maya Angelou, even Sheryl Sandberg — have struggled with imposter syndrome.

So, before you let it hold you back, let’s break it down:

  • Why it happens (especially in product management)
  • How to reframe it into something useful
  • Actionable steps to silence that voice and own your success


Why Product Managers Are Prone to Imposter Syndrome

You’re always in the “gray zone”

Unlike engineers (who build) or designers (who design), PdMs don’t have a tangible output. Your job is to influence without authority, balance priorities, and make decisions with incomplete data.

Which means:

  • If a feature succeeds, it’s because of the team.
  • If a feature flops, you feel responsible.

This ambiguity makes it easy to feel like you don’t know enough.

You work with brilliant people

As a PM, you’re constantly surrounded by smart engineers, UX experts, data scientists, and executives. And when you don’t know as much as they do about their domain, it’s easy to feel like a fraud.

There’s no clear “right” answer

PMs make trade-offs daily:

  • Do we optimize for growth or retention?
  • Should we build what customers say they want, what C-lvl says they need, or what we actually need to increase profit?
  • Do we launch now or wait for perfection?
  • etc. etc.

The nature of product management means you’ll always be making imperfect decisions, which can fuel doubt.


Reframing Imposter Syndrome: What If It’s Actually a Good Sign?

Before we talk about “fixing” imposter syndrome, let’s flip the script:

What if imposter syndrome is actually a sign that you’re in the right place?

  • If you never feel out of your depth, you’re not growing.
  • If you always feel like the smartest person in the room, you’re in the wrong room.
  • If you never question yourself, you’re probably overconfident (and that’s worse).

Elon Musk once admitted that he’s often uncertain:

“I always have optimism, but I’m never sure of anything.”

And yet, that didn’t stop him from building Tesla, SpaceX, and disrupting multiple industries.

Sheryl Sandberg, in Lean In, wrote:

“There are still days when I wake up feeling like a fraud.”

So, if you’re doubting yourself, congratulations — you’re in good company.


3 Practical Steps to Overcome Imposter Syndrome as a PM

Collect “Receipts” (The Success File Method)

When your brain tells you “You don’t belong here”, hit back with evidence.

Start a Success File where you store:

? Wins (feature launches, revenue growth, positive feedback, etc.)

? Emails/slack messages praising your work

? Moments when you made an impact

Example:

A PM at Airbnb felt like they weren’t “technical enough” to lead an AI-driven initiative. However, when they looked at their past work, they saw that their user research shaped the entire AI strategy — proving their value wasn’t in writing code but in understanding customers.

Normalize Not Knowing Everything

Fact: No PM knows everything. Not even the VP of Product.

Your job is not to have all the answers. Your job is to ask the right questions and find the right people to answer them.

Example:

Sundar Pichai, before he became CEO of Google, was known for asking simple but powerful questions. Instead of pretending he knew everything, he leaned into curiosity, asking engineers, “Why do we do it this way?”

Takeaway: Instead of feeling bad for not knowing, get better at asking great questions.

Use the “What Would a Confident PM Do?” Trick

If you’re stuck in self-doubt, try this mental shift:

Ask yourself:

“If I were the most confident version of myself, what would I do right now?”

Then… do that.

It’s a small mindset hack that helps you take action before you feel ready.


Final Thought: The Only People Who Don’t Feel Like Imposters

Want to know who never struggles with imposter syndrome?

?? People who are actually incompetent.

The real frauds don’t sit around worrying if they’re good enough. They assume they are.

So, the fact that you even care about this means… you’re probably doing just fine.

Now go build great things.

Have you ever struggled with imposter syndrome? What helped you overcome it? Let’s discuss in the comments. ??


Marina Gorenshtein

Product Management Leader | UI & Digital Product Expert | Conversion Optimization Strategist

1 个月

What a topic! Looks like it’s time to share some secrets ?? so… After all my thoughts and doubts, I realized that Imposter Syndrome is just part of the challenge—part of stepping out of my comfort zone. But I also realized that staying IN my comfort zone makes me bored. I can’t grow without trying new things, and if this syndrome comes with it, then fine—it’s just part of the game, part of the routine. Now, curiosity takes over, and understanding that everyone is unique—but no one is perfect— helps me move forward.?

Denis Beimart

Technical Product Manager/Owner driving strategic solutions at Zepz

1 个月

Thats a good read, Denis Z. ! I can totally relate to these cold thoughts that make you drown... :) I had them in the past, and I'm feeling goooood now, but.. not having them today doesn't mean you won't get stubbed tmrw :) so it's better to be prepared! Having the figures/wins handy really helps me.

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