- Start Strong: Avoid negative phrases like “I hate to bother you.”Use clear, purposeful language, e.g., “I’d like to get your thoughts on a challenge I’m facing.”
- Acknowledge Their Expertise: Highlight the other person's knowledge rather than downplaying your own. Use statements like, “Your background in this area is exactly what this project needs.”
- Be Precise and Concise: Make your request specific and clear. Instead of vague asks, specify the exact help needed, e.g., “Could you take a look at the order of slides five through 10?”
- Explain Your Efforts: Share what work you’ve already completed to show initiative.For example, “I’ve mapped out three potential scenarios for the project timeline; can we chat about which is most realistic?”
This approach helps you ask for help confidently while demonstrating professionalism and competence.
This tip is adapted from “How to Ask for Help Without Making Yourself Look Bad” by Melody Wilding
