How to approach challenges

How to approach challenges

Why is it that some people are able to approach a challenge where they could potentially fail with such energy and determination while others avoid it like the plague? I have come across two types of people (without being too general here) which fall into these categories. I am definitely in the first one and love a challenge; even when l am not sure I will succeed.

Let’s face facts, it is virtually impossible to get through life without experiencing a setback, large or small; that leaves us feeling devastated and thinking we cannot go on. Challenges come in all sizes and shapes, yet why is it that some people are better at getting back up, brushing off the dirt and then moving on to start all over again. I believe it comes down to the mindset.

To put this into context, let’s imagine the challenge is about giving a presentation. There are two types of approach to this challenge: avoidance and tactical.

Someone with an avoidance approach would think about the presentation and visualise the satisfaction of having delivered the presentation and how good it would feel; but would then start thinking about the potential challenges and pitfalls along the way which, of course, inevitably could lower his or her chances of success. They would then work out a way to avoid this challenge at all costs.

A person with a tactical approach thinks about the presentation knowing that pitfalls are part of the journey. They prepare for this by finding new solutions that they are comfortable with, or even failing miserably in the attempt over and over again. If and when the worst happens, this person takes it in their stride and continues.

Now in the tactical approach, the focus is more motivation and determination. It is more about the mindset and this person’s willpower to try and try again and also know when it is time to ultimately move on.

Remember this mindset does not happen overnight or in the ‘click of a finger’. It is a process that takes some time to learn. I didn’t get it right the first time either. But if you take the time to get in the right mindset the next time you feel you are facing a challenge; have a go at trying the tactical approach and let me know how you get on.

Vladislav Chernyaev

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3 年

I would say having a tactical approach is the best for our coaching industry, isn't it?

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