How to always have time for what you love (at and outside of work)
Kate Sotsenko ??
I free up 30% of your time from bad busy work | Productivity & Leadership Coach for mid-senior leaders & teams | Save your spot for my free goal-setting workshop ↓ "Visit Website" ??
"Time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time." - Marthe Troly-Curtin
Hi there,
How was your last week?
Mine was a good busy one: I rehearsed for an upcoming keynote, finalized a workshop for a luxury brand, coached clients, and celebrated my father's birthday.
Now, let me ask - do you ever wonder how some people seem to get more done in the same 24 hours?
I once overhead a colleague say, "Kate has no life - just work."
Years ago, they might've been right.
But by 2021, nothing could be further from the truth.
At the time, I was leading a global client experience team, covering my manager's maternity leave, and still fit into my week:
?? 1 hike
?? 1 hour of tennis
?? 3 yoga sessions
?? 2-3 hours of Netflix
?? 4-5 hours of reading
?? 1 hour of dance class
?? 1-2 dinners with friends
??? ?? 3 hours of beach tennis
Oh, and that year, I earned a raise, a bonus, and a special performance bonus. ??????
Why am I sharing this?
Because I learned something vital in my 30s: the quality of time at work defines the quality of your life outside of it (Brian Tracy.)
But if you're not clear on the quality you want, no amount of extra hours will help you get there.
I won't be sharing my secret with that colleague - but I'm sharing it with you.
the why
In my 30s, I accepted a hard truth: There's no magic wand for managing time.
For the first half of my 15-year corporate career, I believed the more hours I worked, the more I'd achieve.
That belief nearly pushed me to burnout, leading to temporary vision losses.
It was my wake-up call.
Here's what I realized: Productivity is about managing energy, not time.
We're no longer in a factory economy where time equals output. Today, we get paid for our attention, energy, and knowledge (and much more.)
But many are still trapped in the old mindset that time drives productivity.
Want to have time for what you love? You've got to break that mindset.
It works! Sharing with permission a DM I received last week.
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the how
If you're always running out of time for what and who you love, start managing your energy.
Ask yourself:
Use your answers to create your ideal week plan - get clear on what you want, on how quality looks for you.
Then compare it to your current schedule. Adjust where possible and plan future weeks around your energy peaks.
Here's how my ideal plan looked in my last corporate role:
Did I stick to this 100%? No, life happens. But following it 80% of the time made a huge impact on the quality of my life.
Everyone's schedule will look different, especially if you have kids or other responsibilities.
The goal is not to copy mine but to design a plan that fits your life, keeping you productive at work and fulfilled after.
result
When you start managing your energy with intention, you'll stop sacrificing what you love at work and at home.
And believe me, people will start wondering how you get it all done (but we won't mind them guessing, will we?).
your play of the week
Plan your schedule around your energy ???
Try the "ideal week" exercise:
Remember, perfection isn't the goal - aim for the 80/20 rule!
If you found this edition helpful, forward it to a friend or a colleague who needs time for what they love. And grab The Good Busy Playbooks with my 5-minute video guides.
Thank you for reading?????
Enjoy getting good busy!
See you next Monday,
Kate
P.S. Running out of time for what matters to you at & after work??
Here's how I can help:?
OK Bo?tjan Dolin?ek
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1 个月love the point about being intentional with our energy and activities Kate! a huge step is just being aware of what energies or drains us. this is my favorite article about that topic https://hbr.org/2007/10/manage-your-energy-not-your-time
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1 个月Time and energy are our most valuable resource. And once we start prioritizing according to that - that's when things get unlocked.
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1 个月There is no one-size-fits-all work-life balance. Finding what works for you and yours is the key to true balance. Love this Kate!
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1 个月not just time, but also focus on energy Kate Sotsenko ??.